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1 adoption inquiry on Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:36 pm

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
Good day! Itatanong ko lang po kung paano po ang pwede mga hakbang na gawin. Yung asawa ko po aksidenteng nagkaanak sa ibang babae bago kame ikasal. Ngayon po binibigay na ng nanay ung bata sa amin dahil hindi na daw nya kayang alagaan. Pwede po bang kapag binigay nya samin yung bata, kame na ang tumayong magulang nya at magsign sa birth certificate ng bata since wala pa po atang bc ung bata?

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2 Re: adoption inquiry on Mon Sep 07, 2015 10:56 am

Katrina288


Reclusion Perpetua
Hi,

Please do not sign as the mother of the child because that is simulation of birth which is a criminal act.

The proper thing to do is to write the name of the birth mother in the birth certificate and your husband as the father, and he can acknowledge the child by signing on the birth certificate.

Since the child is illegitimate, you and your husband can jointly adopt the child so that the child will have the same rights as that of a legitimate child. But you have to get the written consent of the birth mother to process the adoption. She will also be presented in court during the adoption proceedings to testify that she understood the consequences of adoption and that no one forced her to sign the written consent.

Regards,
Atty. Katrina

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3 Re: adoption inquiry on Tue Sep 08, 2015 2:50 pm

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
GOod day atty katrina. We went to the womens desk earlier. Ung babae po kase tinatakot nanaman asawa ko na dadalin na daw nya ung bata sa campo para ibigay samin. We were abt to give 10k nalang para manahimik until 1 of my colleagues told me ill be stupid kapag ganun kalaki ibibigay namin. Noon po kaseng ainabi namin un bigla nanaman nyamg binawi na ibigay ang bata. So ako as wife, para matapos na ako na mismo nakipagusap aa babae na magkita kame sa womens desk nga po kasama asawa ko at ung bata. Tas kanina po nung sinabi ko ng on the way na ko sabi nya di na xa matutuloy kase bogla daw xa nahilo at ayaw nya pilitin satrili nya. Tas she is no longer answering my calls nor my texts. Sabi po nung pulis hayaan lng namin xa tapos wag muna kame magbibigay ng pera habggat di xa nagpapakita sa campo

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4 Re: adoption inquiry on Tue Sep 08, 2015 2:53 pm

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
If ever we do that process po atty., what would be our rights to the child same as to the biological mother? Siya parin po ba kung sakali ang masusunod kung kailan nya pwedeng makita o kunin ung bata? I not being selfish po kaso kase i want to have a peace of mind na kapag inadopt namin ang bata matatahimik na din kame sa mga banta nya. Bilang asawa nya atty., do i have a say to this na po kapag nagkaharap na kame sa womens desk? Pwede na din po ba akong magbigay ng demands ko as the wife?

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5 Re: adoption inquiry on Wed Sep 09, 2015 9:59 am

Katrina288


Reclusion Perpetua
Hi,

Once your application for adoption is approved by the Court, all parental authority and custody will be transferred to you and your husband. The written consent to be given by the birth mother means that she relinquishes parental authority and custody over the child.

She will no longer have right to see or to take the child. Yes you can, but even without saying that, mapuputol na relasyon ng bata sa birth mother kapag na-aprobahan na ang adoption.

If you need more detailed information, you can send me a direct email on km@kgmlegal.ph


Regards,

Atty. Katrina

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6 Re: adoption inquiry on Wed Sep 09, 2015 10:36 am

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
When you said she will no longer have the right to see or take the child, does that mean po na nasaamin ng magasawa kung bibigyan pa namin xa ng connection to the child? Sabi ko kase sa womens desk kahapon, ang sabi ko po kase willing naman na kame iadopt ung bata pero kapag nangyari un ayoko na ng kahit ano pang ugnaya sakanila ng bata sabi ng pulis imposible naman daw po yun kase xa daw po ang nanay.

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7 Re: adoption inquiry on Wed Sep 09, 2015 10:46 am

Katrina288


Reclusion Perpetua
Yes, nasa sa inyong mag-asawa na po 'yon kung bibigyan pa sila ng ugnayan. Bakit kayo nasa women's desk? Habang hindi pa na-aaprobahan ang adoption, may karapatan pa talaga ang ina sa bata. Pero pag na-aprobahan na ng court ang adoption papers ng bata, wala na siya karapatan sa bata.

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8 Re: adoption inquiry on Wed Sep 09, 2015 11:43 am

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
Ganto po atty. Ahm recently po kase sobrang gipit kame so di nakapagpadala asawa ko ng pera. Wala pa pong dna pero para wala lang gulo nagbibigay ng pera asawa ko. Nung isang gabi po, nagtext ung babae na magkita daw sila sa campo (pulis po atty ung asawa ko) and she'll bring the child daw at ibibigay sa asawa ko. Eh nung una po para wag na xa magpunta sabi namin papadala nalang kame ng 10k na after nun mabilis nyang sinabi na hnd na nya dadalin ang bata at ppunta ng campo. Narealize ko po na kung ibibigay nmin ung ganung halaga, better na ituloy na namin ang dna para mtapos na. So ako ang nakipagusap sa girl na sige magkita kame sa campo kasama asawa ko. Kaso yun nga po nung andun na ko bigla na xang nagtext na di xa makakarating kase nahilo xa

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9 Re: adoption inquiry on Wed Sep 09, 2015 11:46 am

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
She texted me yesterday din po atty at nagsorry na di nakapunta pero sabi nya ngayon daw po xa pupunta ng campo para sabihin ung side nya. Hanggang ngayon naman po wala pa xang text na andun xa at hindi din naman po pinatawag asawa ko which means na hindi padin po xa sumisipot. Now i am thinking kung natatakot na ba xang mawala ung bata sakanya. Kase ang feeling po namin pinananakot nya lang po yung bata para magbigay kame ng pera.

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10 Re: adoption inquiry on Wed Sep 09, 2015 1:17 pm

concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
Kung willing siya na ibigay sa father ang bata, mas magiging favorable sa inyo yun. At kung hindi naman itinatangi ng husband mo ang bata, there is no need for DNA testing.

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11 Re: adoption inquiry on Thu Sep 10, 2015 9:43 am

Katrina288


Reclusion Perpetua
I agree with Concepab. Smile

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12 Re: adoption inquiry on Thu Sep 10, 2015 10:18 am

cloudseven


Arresto Mayor
KUNG willing na po ipaadopt talaga nung babae we'll definitely do that para less gastos na. So far po wala pang text yung babae kng nagpunta na xa ng campo. Hindi pa din pinapatawag asawa ko so which may mean na hini xa sumisipot. Smile

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