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1 Child Custody on Sun Nov 22, 2015 11:35 pm

Bodzboston


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I have a question. So my brother pregnated a woman. They lived together for about 2 years but the the thing is that the woman forced my brother to have sex with her knowing he was really drunk. He doesnt love her, and he couldnt love her for the fact that the woman has no good manners and also her family. Their relationship was very rocky. My brother met a new woman and he loved her so much that he married her and they had a child. My brother's son is living with her mother. So the thing is that my brother is a seafarer and he asked our mom to take good care of his son. My brother provides all the needs of his son, enrolled unto a good school, provide his basic needs. Giving him all the love and care. My nephews mom doesnt want his child to see us or even talked to us. They only let my nephew visit us when they dont have nothing to feed my nephew or when there are expenses at school needed to be paid or when his sick. We would always call the boy to come to our house but whenever his with his aunt the boy never answers or even looked at us. They would scold my nephew whenever they sees him talking to us. Before the mom has no job. All the expenses of my nephews are paid by my brother. Now the mom has a job as a domestic helper and left my nephew to her sister. Sometimes my nephew cries because her aunt wouldnt let him be with us. Teaching my nephew not to talk to us. They usually tell others negative things about us saying that we dont love the child, we dont provide him anything. What they want is to give them money for the child. My brother doesnt want to give them money because he knows that the money wouldnt be given to his child but to the womans family. Knowing they will use it for there own wants. The child just turned 7. We want the child to be in my brothers custody. Do we have a chance?

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2 Re: Child Custody on Mon Nov 23, 2015 9:37 pm

marlo


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Your brother had 2 child. The first child is an illegitimate one and the next one is legit.

To which one is your question for ? I mean, from your last sentence, which child you are referring to?



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larry121812


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good day sir..mag tatanong lang po ako ng aking karapatan bilang isang ama..ako po ay may nakarelasyon n may anak n sa unang lalaki tinanggap kopoun ng buo at inako ang responsibilidad hindi po nagtagal nagkaroon kmi ng sariling anak sa katunyan po mag ddlwa npo ang anak k sa ngayon buntis po kc ang nanay ng anak k..sir hindi n po mavnda amg nangyayari sa relsyon nmin dlwa ilang beses ndin pi kami nagkahiwalay ung last..last feb 19 2014 nagkaroon po kmi ng kasunduan at pirmahan sa harao ng dswd womens desck at baranggay captain at naka notorry po un n nagsasaad n every other week ang or isang linggo sa babae at isang linggo sakin at lahat ng gastusin ako po ang nagaasikaso seaman po ako sir..bago po ako umalis nakipagaayos po ulit sakin ang nanay ng anak k nung nakabalik ako ng sept 7 2015 mgnda po ang takbo hanggat nung nalaman nyang buntis sya ulit nagbago n lahat hangang sa pinagdamot n nila ung panganay kong anak!may mga proff po ako n every month n nattnggap nya ung pdla..sir valid p po ba ung kasunduan at pirmahan nmin kc po pinqgdadamot at tinatanggalan po nila ako ng karaoatan sa anak k!!sana pomatulungan nyo po ako!ano po b dapat kong gawin?wala pong trabaho ung babae at magiging tatlo n po ang anak nya at 2 po ang anak k saknya ung pnganay nyang anak simula nung naging kmi nung 2011 ako n ang gumastos sa lahat ng pangangailngan ng panganay nyang anak.

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4 Re: Child Custody on Thu Dec 24, 2015 6:33 pm

marlo


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larry121812 wrote:good day sir..mag tatanong lang po ako ng aking karapatan bilang isang ama..ako po ay may nakarelasyon n may anak n sa unang lalaki tinanggap kopoun ng buo at inako ang responsibilidad hindi po nagtagal nagkaroon kmi ng sariling anak sa katunyan po mag ddlwa npo ang anak k sa ngayon buntis po kc ang nanay ng anak k..sir hindi n po mavnda amg nangyayari sa relsyon nmin dlwa ilang beses ndin pi kami nagkahiwalay ung last..last feb 19 2014 nagkaroon po kmi ng kasunduan at pirmahan sa harao ng dswd womens desck at baranggay captain at naka notorry po un n nagsasaad n every other week ang or isang linggo sa babae at isang linggo sakin at lahat ng gastusin ako po ang nagaasikaso seaman po ako sir..bago po ako umalis nakipagaayos po ulit sakin ang nanay ng anak k nung nakabalik ako ng sept 7 2015 mgnda po ang takbo hanggat nung nalaman nyang buntis sya ulit nagbago n lahat hangang sa pinagdamot n nila ung panganay kong anak!may mga proff po ako n every month n nattnggap nya ung pdla..sir valid p po ba ung kasunduan at pirmahan nmin kc po pinqgdadamot at tinatanggalan po nila ako ng karaoatan sa anak k!!sana pomatulungan nyo po ako!ano po b dapat kong gawin?wala pong trabaho ung babae at magiging tatlo n po ang anak nya at 2 po ang anak k saknya ung pnganay nyang anak simula nung naging kmi nung 2011 ako n ang gumastos sa lahat ng pangangailngan ng panganay nyang anak.

Hindi mo naman nabanggit na kayo ay ikinasal ng ina ng mga anak mo. Ibig sabihin, ang mga bata ay illegitimate.

Visitational rights sa mga bata ang isang maaring ilaban mo sa court at pirmadong transaction/resibo/katunayan ng pagsuporta naman ang humigit kumulang ang maaring depensa mo sa maari nyang isampa sa iyo.

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5 Re: Child Custody on Wed Jan 06, 2016 9:01 pm

larry121812


Arresto Menor
gud day sir marlo

yes po.hindi po kami kasal at hindi pokami pwedeng ikasal dahil kasalpo sya sa unang nyang asawa...pero sabirthcertificate ng anak kpo nakapirma at apelido k po ang gngmit ng anak ask klng po din ung tungkol sa kasulatan at pirmahan nmin dlwa ay legal din po nakasaad po dun ay hiraman po kmi sa anak m 1 week saknila at 1 week sakin at lahat ng gastusin ay ako po ang nagsshpulder!!curretly po buntis po sya ulit at almost 2months k na pong hindi nhhram nakikita at nkkssma ang anak anopo b dapat kong gawin sir paalisn po k ulit hindi k man lang maksama ang anak k!legal po b ung kasunduan at pirmhan nmin dlwa pwede kpo bang gamitin un hindi posila natupad sausapan!!salamat po

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6 Re: Child Custody on Wed Jan 06, 2016 9:01 pm

larry121812


Arresto Menor
nakatbi din po ung mga deposit slip sir sobra din po ang pinpdla ksknya..

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7 Re: Child Custody on Wed Jan 06, 2016 9:57 pm

marlo


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larry121812 wrote:gud day sir marlo

yes po.hindi po kami kasal at hindi pokami pwedeng ikasal dahil kasalpo sya sa unang nyang asawa...pero sabirthcertificate ng anak kpo nakapirma at apelido k po ang gngmit ng anak ask klng po din ung tungkol sa kasulatan at pirmahan nmin dlwa ay legal din po nakasaad po dun ay hiraman po kmi sa anak m 1 week saknila at 1 week sakin at lahat ng gastusin ay ako po ang nagsshpulder!!curretly po buntis po sya ulit at almost 2months k na pong hindi nhhram nakikita at nkkssma ang anak anopo b dapat kong gawin sir paalisn po k ulit hindi k man lang maksama ang anak k!legal po b ung kasunduan at pirmhan nmin dlwa pwede kpo bang gamitin un hindi posila natupad sausapan!!salamat po


Tulad ng nabanggit noong una, visitational rights ang maaring mong idasal at ilaban sa court na kung saan payag ang ina ng bata, dahil ang bata ay iyong illegitimate child sa kanya. Ito ay para legal mong madalaw at mapasyalan ang iyong anak sa madaling salita basta ma approve ng court ang iyong petition.

Maari mo sigurong ilaban ang temporary custody ng mga bata sa tuwing ikaw ay magbabakasyon sa Pilipinas at ito ay iyong hihilingin din sa ina ng bata sa loob sa court.

Kailangan mo ng abogado. GL



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8 Re: Child Custody on Wed Jan 06, 2016 10:25 pm

larry121812


Arresto Menor
sir marlo anopo b fapat kung gawin sa pagbalik k gusto k pong ipaglaban ang karapatan k sa anak k nttkot po ako n mawalaang anak ksakin at hinding hindi po haharap.un sa korte kahit abugado sa abugadohindi posila naharap.

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9 Re: Child Custody on Wed Jan 06, 2016 11:05 pm

marlo


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Nabanggit na sa mga sagot. Kumuha ng abogado para mailaban mo ang nais mo.

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10 Re: Child Custody on Thu Jan 07, 2016 3:12 pm

fie


Arresto Menor
Hi good morning sir!
i just wanna ask ,i have one kid 5 years old im not married to tbe father of the child but we are separated last year.im here now in other country i have a chance to get my son and bring him here so i had vacation last august last hear i talk to the father about this and he agreed with this we went together to notary to make and paper of consent he sign it ,he write also in paper and sign ,he give also the copy of id and he give his nso birth certificate, but when i come back here in other country he change his mind he dont want it anymore to give to my son he said i can do anything even i kill just for my son ,,,,what can i do this ,i give a complain also in barangay police because he hurt me physically i had my medical certificate also but because he agreed with me i did not containue the complain but now he change and he making me afraid of killing which makes me crazy to think, i said to him i will help you what you want just to have a good talk about our son,he wants to borrow 20,000 pesos but i said i dont have yet and i will give you when i will come there to get my son,but he change,now my question is what can i do if he dont want to give to me my son and about what he saying that he will kill one of my family,,,?your answer will be very appreciated, thank u!!

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11 Re: Child Custody on Thu Jan 07, 2016 5:40 pm

marlo


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fie wrote:Hi good morning sir!
i just wanna ask ,i have one kid 5 years old im not married to tbe father of the child but we are separated last year.im here now in other country i have a chance to get my son and bring him here so i had vacation last august last hear i talk to the father about this and he agreed with this we went together to notary to make and paper of consent he sign it ,he write also in paper and sign ,he give also the copy of id and he give his nso birth certificate, but when i come back here in other country he change his mind he dont want it anymore to give to my son he said i can do anything even i kill just for my son ,,,,what can i do this ,i give a complain also in barangay police because he hurt me physically i had my medical certificate also but because he agreed with me i did not containue the complain but now he change and he making me afraid of killing which makes me crazy to think, i said to him i will help you what you want just to have a good talk about our son,he wants to borrow 20,000 pesos but i said i dont have yet and i will give you when i will come there to get my son,but he change,now my question is what can i do if he dont want to give to me my son and about what he saying that he will kill one of my family,,,?your answer will be very appreciated, thank u!!

Are you and your child natural citizens of Philippines?

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12 Re: Child Custody on Fri Jan 08, 2016 3:12 am

fie


Arresto Menor
Hi yes sir we are both filipino citizen,i born my son to my parents house in our province,my son is in makati now in my brother in law house,i cant get my son and bring to my parents because my ex boyfriend said he will do something to jy family,i dont want to take the risk so i said oke my son wil, stay also together with you,we agreed and we talked wellalready but now he is like this,im talking to him well for the future of our son but instead he talk to me he said something bad words to me ,and he posting in facebook against me and sending bad picture to me, so its so hard for me ,i hope you can help me,thank you,

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13 Re: Child Custody on Sat Jan 09, 2016 12:39 am

Raymond1985


Arresto Menor
Im Raymond 30 yrs old x-ofw and now working in a remitance company here in manila.My story goes like this,isa po akong ofw sa riyadh ksa from 2011-2013 at dun ko po nkilala ang asawa ko na nurse,eventually we dated and our relationship resulted in a pregnancy,bawal po sa saudi ang magsama ng hinde kasal ko without hesitation i ask my family to bring all the legal papers pra po maikasal kmi sa RIYADH,we got legally married in riyadh by the ambassador of the philippines to riyadh saudi arabia.,so alam ko po n legal na legal ang ksal nmin we got all the supporting documents of our wedding.,the relationship is good until this early 2015 umuwi po sila sa province galing sa bahay po nmin sa cavite with the promise of getting back here in manila b4 bumalik po ulit ang asawa ko sa abroad but it all suddenly change.,BIGLA NLNG PO KMING PINAGHIHIWALAY NG MGA BYENAN KO ( PARENTS OF MY WIFE ) SA KADAHILANANG HNDE DAW PO KMI MAGKARELIHIYON AT HNDE DAW KMI KHIT KELAN MAGKAKASUNDO.,hnde po kmi naghiwalay ng asawa ko kung hinde pinilit kmi paghiwalayin ng knyang mga magulang with there nonsense reason.,nabigla po ako dahil almost 2 months ko lng nkasama ang anak ko ay agad n nman nilang inilayo sakin eto,ang anak ko po ay 2 yrs old npo,mula ng pinanganak cya ilang buwan lng ay dinala n e2 sa probinsya,ANG SAKIT PO SAKIN BILANG ISANG AMA NA HINDE KO PO MAKAUSAP ANG ASAWA KO AT ANAK DAHIL PINAGBABAWALAN NG MAGULANG NG ASAWA KO
AYAW NILA AKONG SAGUTIN SA TELEPONO PRA MKAUSAP KO ANG ANAK KO KUNG NSASAGOT MAN NILA AY AGAD IBINABABA TINANGALAN NILA AKO NG KARAPATAN SA BATA AT SA PAMILYA KO.Ako po ay tga cavite at sila ay tiga mindanao,magtatatlong taon npo ang anak ko pero halos 2 buwan ko lng cya nkasama ayaw nila mpunta sakin ang bata cguro da kadahilanang hinde sa knila mppunta ang padala ng asawa ko galing sa abroad.,HINDE PO AKO NAGHAHANGAD NG PERA O ANU MAN SA KNILA ANG GUS2 KO NLG PO AY ANG KARAPATANG KO BILANG AMA NG BATA AT MAKASAMA ANG ANAK KO.,SANA PO AY MAAWA KYO SAKIN AT MA2LUNGAN NYO PO AKO SA PROBLEMA KONG ITO.

SALAMAT PO,God bless…and sana po ay m2lungan nyo ako.
seeking 4 legal advice.

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14 Re: Child Custody on Sat Jan 09, 2016 5:57 pm

marlo


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fie wrote:Hi yes sir we are both filipino citizen,i born my son to my parents house in our province,my son is in makati now in my brother in law house,i cant get my son and bring to my parents because my ex boyfriend said he will do something to jy family,i dont want to take the risk so i said oke my son wil, stay also together with you,we agreed and we talked wellalready but now he is like this,im talking to him well for the future of our son but instead he talk to me he said something bad words to me ,and he posting in facebook against me and sending  bad picture to me, so its so hard for me ,i hope you can help me,thank you,

My opinion says, get a timely schedule to fly back in Philppines. Find a good attorney and file a case to have custody over the child and a case against the father of the child.

Your attorney would give you legal advise further and tell you which cases are probable to file. GL

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15 Re: Child Custody on Sat Jan 09, 2016 6:07 pm

marlo


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Raymond1985 wrote:Im Raymond 30 yrs old x-ofw and now working in a remitance company here in manila.My story goes like this,isa po akong ofw sa riyadh ksa from 2011-2013 at dun ko po nkilala ang asawa ko na nurse,eventually we dated and our relationship resulted in a pregnancy,bawal po sa saudi ang magsama ng hinde kasal ko without hesitation i ask my family to bring all the legal papers pra po maikasal kmi sa RIYADH,we got legally married in riyadh by the ambassador of the philippines to riyadh saudi arabia.,so alam ko po n legal na legal ang ksal nmin we got all the supporting documents of our wedding.,the relationship is good until this early 2015 umuwi po sila sa province galing sa bahay po nmin sa cavite with the promise of getting back here in manila b4 bumalik po ulit ang asawa ko sa abroad but it all suddenly change.,BIGLA NLNG PO KMING PINAGHIHIWALAY NG MGA BYENAN KO ( PARENTS OF MY WIFE ) SA KADAHILANANG HNDE DAW PO KMI MAGKARELIHIYON AT HNDE DAW KMI KHIT KELAN MAGKAKASUNDO.,hnde po kmi naghiwalay ng asawa ko kung hinde pinilit kmi paghiwalayin ng knyang mga magulang with there nonsense reason.,nabigla po ako dahil almost 2 months ko lng nkasama ang anak ko ay agad n nman nilang inilayo sakin eto,ang anak ko po ay 2 yrs old npo,mula ng pinanganak cya ilang buwan lng ay dinala n e2 sa probinsya,ANG SAKIT PO SAKIN BILANG ISANG AMA NA HINDE KO PO MAKAUSAP ANG ASAWA KO AT ANAK DAHIL PINAGBABAWALAN NG MAGULANG NG ASAWA KO
AYAW NILA AKONG SAGUTIN SA TELEPONO PRA MKAUSAP KO ANG ANAK KO KUNG NSASAGOT MAN NILA AY AGAD IBINABABA TINANGALAN NILA AKO NG KARAPATAN SA BATA AT SA PAMILYA KO.Ako po ay tga cavite at sila ay tiga mindanao,magtatatlong taon npo ang anak ko pero halos 2 buwan ko lng cya nkasama ayaw nila mpunta sakin ang bata cguro da kadahilanang hinde sa knila mppunta ang padala ng asawa ko galing sa abroad.,HINDE PO AKO NAGHAHANGAD NG PERA O ANU MAN SA KNILA ANG GUS2 KO NLG PO AY ANG KARAPATANG KO BILANG AMA NG BATA AT MAKASAMA ANG ANAK KO.,SANA PO AY MAAWA KYO SAKIN AT MA2LUNGAN NYO PO AKO SA PROBLEMA KONG ITO.

SALAMAT PO,God bless…and sana po ay m2lungan nyo ako.
seeking 4 legal advice.

Subukan mong manguha ng abogado para maipaglaban ang iyong karapatan sa bata.

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16 Re: Child Custody on Sat Jan 09, 2016 7:20 pm

fie


Arresto Menor
Thank u for advice sir i hope i can find attorney to help me,i hope i can talk well to the father otherwise i will go with a law,have a nice day,

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17 Re: Child Custody on Sat Jan 09, 2016 7:23 pm

fie


Arresto Menor
One more question sir do i have a right to file a case like my ex boyfriend cannot get my son if ever my son stay in my parents?thank u

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18 Re: Child Custody on Sat Jan 09, 2016 7:55 pm

marlo


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fie wrote:One more question sir do i have a right to file a case like my ex boyfriend cannot get my son if ever my son stay in my parents?thank u

As the mother of illegitimate child, you have rights to file/demand FULL custody and parental authority over the illegitimate child in court and even bring your son to your country of work, as long as the child is safe and well taken care of. You can also file a court case of non-financial support of the father over the child if the father is not providing any.

On the other hand, the father may file in court his visitational rights over the illegitimate child if the child would still stay in Philippines.

Your attorney would give you legal advise.

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19 Re: Child Custody on Mon Jan 11, 2016 2:22 pm

fie


Arresto Menor
Thank you sir
if the kids is more 7 years old is he still can or need to choose where he wants to stay to the mother or father?even he is illegitimate?

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20 Re: Child Custody on Mon Jan 11, 2016 3:51 pm

marlo


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fie wrote:Thank you sir
if the kids is more 7 years old is he still can or need to choose where he wants to stay to the mother or father?even he is illegitimate?

The child is illegitimate. If there are no evidence that the safety and welfare of the child is at risk with the mother or court finds no compelling reasons for the child not to stay with the mother, thus mother has full authority and parental consent over the illegit child. If child's mother is not around or available, I think its the next to kin of the mother like her parents or siblings. There are more in line rather than the father of the illegit child.

If you find that the illegit child's safety and well being is at risk when he is with his bio father, you must prove that also in court. If not, father may ask his visitational rights over the child and court may grant that if that is the case.

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21 Re: Child Custody on Tue Jan 12, 2016 3:36 pm

fie


Arresto Menor
If my son will stay in my parents and if the father wants a visit rights what if i give him a right to visit but he needs to support financial is that possible?and if he dont want to support financial is it possible he cant have his right to visit also?thank you,

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22 Re: Child Custody on Tue Jan 12, 2016 5:32 pm

marlo


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Visitational rights and financial support can be discussed and decided in court once you file a case against the father or a case for full child custody

The father is supposed to provide his obligations to his illegit child by at least sending regular financial support. The law requires that. If not, file a case against the father for non-support.

Also, it is a child's right to see his bio father while he grows up. It is beneficial for the child to his fatherly image (unless there are compelling risky reasons not to.) whether father has work or not, or father is sending financial support or not. Thus, father prays for his visitational rights in court. (Not to cause flamewar and no disrespect meant, I noticed from other forum sites that most women cannot accept this fact or doesnt understand this part for unknown reasons I could not fully understand).

You would need an attorney for this.

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