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1 child support on Mon Jan 03, 2011 6:57 pm

judea


Arresto Menor
gud pm po..i wanna ask a legal advise po regarding my husband.kasal po kami nung 1998. may 3 kaming anak..maauz po ang aming pagsasama hanggang s nung nagtrabaho xa s makati nas a call center agent..nung una nag-uuwian xa peo ng malaon e nagpaalam xa n magboboard n lang xa..pinayagan q po xa un po pla may ibinahay n xa.. he left us last july 2008. nagpunta po xa s dubai ng d nagpapaalam s amin. nalaman q lang po n wala n xa ng bansa nung tumawag aq s opisina nila..dun lang din po nalaman n may naging kabit xa at yun ang sinundan nya s dubai..5 mos. lang xa nagsustento s mga bata mula ng umalis xa papuntang dubai..ang katwiran nya may trabaho aq at d lang xa ang may obligasyon s mga anak nya...nung ngkasakit ng dengue ang bunso q last oct. 2010, 4500 lang ang pinadala nya at nung ngsalita aq n kung ung anak ng kabit nya sa ibang lalake pinag birthday nya s mcdonalds itong anak nya mismo pinabayaan nya s ere..pinagmumura nya aq at wag n wag q daw idadamay ung kabit nya at ung anak ng kabit nya s ibang lalake kung indi lalo daw xa d magbibigay para s ospital n ginawa nga nya..s ngaun ay nagkakaproblema n aq financially kaya gusto q sana humingi ng sustento para s mga anak nya pero ayaw nya kc nasa akin daw ang mga bata kaya d daw nya aq susustentuhan..nabalitaan q n pauwi n ulit xa ngaung marso kaya guzto ko po sanang malaman kung paano q magagawa n mapahold siya at d muna mapaalis ng bansa hanggat d kami ngkakaroon ng kasunduang legal sa sustento nya sa mga anak nya. at balita q po ay nag muslim xa para pakasalan ung babae nya..tanung q din po sana kung may habol ba ang anak q s kanya..
ngaun palang po ay nagpapasalamat na aq ng madami..

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2 Re: child support on Tue Jan 04, 2011 4:53 pm

attyLLL


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please don't use text spelling.

it will be best if you can get confirmed info when he will come here. i recommend that you file a case of concubinage and VAWC under RA9262 for economic abuse around 2 weeks to one month before he arrives.

once you have filed the case at the prosecutor's office, get a certification of the status of the case and apply for a 60 day Watchlist Order at the DOJ.


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arnie


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Kasal po kami ng asawa ko for 8 years we have 3 kids, and nagkahiwalay po kami 5 years ago,it is because mas pinili nyang makisama sa kabit nya and up to now sila parin at may anak na sila 1 girl who is 2 years old now. Sa limang taon na paghihiwalay namin wlang natanggap na suporta ang mga anak ko from his father. And last dec. 2010 tumawag sya sa akin para lang kamustahin mga bata at sinabi nya rin na 9months na syang nasa saudi.Pinakiusapan ko sya na tutal nasa abroad na baka naman gusto nya padalan mga anak nya kahit konti pero wala syang reaksyon kesyo madami pa dw syang binabayaran na utang, pero umamin sya na nagpapadala sya ng pera sa kabit nya monthly. Ang sakit! Sad.....Bakit pinamumuka nya pa na nasa abroad sya at sinusuportahan nya yung isa.Naawa po ako sa mga anak ko dahil sila ang mas may karapatan at dapat lang na gampanan nya mga obligasyon nya sa mga anak namin.Gusto ko pong malaman kung ano po ang tamang hakbang para ma obliga ko sya na supotahan at ipaglaban ang mga karapatan ng mga anak ko, kung paano at saan ako dapat pumunta at mag tanong. Ni hindi ko po alam kung saan sila nakatira ng kabit nya at kung saan mismo sa saudi sya nagtatrabaho at pangalan ng agency na pinag aplayan nya. Sana po ay matulungan nyo ko. Maraming Salamat Po!!!

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4 Re: child support on Thu Jan 06, 2011 4:53 pm

attyLLL


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then you'll have to do investigative work first. inquire at the poea or at the owwa. perhaps you can use his parents' home as his last known address.


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5 child support on Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:56 pm

dragonleur


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ang husband ko po ay isang engineer na may mga projects sa ibat ibang probinsya. maayos po kaming mag-asawa at may 2 anak. Pero nung 2008 nabalitaan ko po na may ibinabahay na ang asawa ko. Pinuntahan ko po kasama ang biyenan kong babae, para pakiusapan na bumalik na sa maynila at ayusin namin ang problema. sumama po sya sa amin, at nangakong tuluyan na nyang iiwan ang babae nya. pero dahil sa trabaho, nakabalik sya ulit sa probinsya at nagtuloy tuloy pa rin ang relasyon nila ng kabit nya. hanggang nagkaanak na sila na ngayon ay 1yr na. simula po nun ay bihira na umuwi sa min ang asawa ko. nagtatanong na rin ang mga anak ko at 13 at 8 yrs old na, kung bakit di na umuuwi ang tatay nila sa amin. di na rin po sya nagbibigay ng sapat na suporta sa mga anak namin. balita ko po ay nagre-renta sila ng isang apartment at pinag-aaral pa nya ang isang kapatid ng kabit nya. kapag humihingi ako sa kanya ang suporta, lagi nya sinasabing wala syang pera. di ko po masabi sa mga anak ko ang sitwasyon namin ng tatay nila pati na ang pagkakaroon nila ng kapatid. sinubukan ko pong tumawag sa kumpanya nila para hingin na automatic na ideposit sa account ko ang kalahati ng sweldo nya para sa mga anak ko. pero di po pinansin ng HR ang hiling ko. ano po ang legal na paraan para makakuha ng suporta ang mga anak ko? ano po ang pwede kong ikaso sa asawa ko at sa kabit nya?

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6 Re: child support on Wed Jan 12, 2011 4:47 pm

attyLLL


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i recommend that you first send a demand letter to him with proof of receipt. this will be your notice that you are taking legal action.

gather evidence that they are living together.try to get witnesses, pictures etc.

when you are ready, you can file a complaint for economic abuse under RA 9262 and concubinage.


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7 Re: child support on Fri Jan 21, 2011 1:50 pm

randy3326


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Greetings!

Ako naman po ay isang Ama, na may unsuccessful marriage. Hindi kami magkasundo mag-asawa sa anumang bagay lalo na sa mga gastusin. Gayun pa man, pinilit ko makapag pundar ng mga kasangkapan sa bahay hanggang maibukod ko ang aking mag-ina.Pero sa di pakalaunan ay hindi pa din naging maayus ang aming pagsasama, parating may away, sumbatan at kung ano pa. Hanggang humantong ako sa isang sitwasyon na alam kong di ko na ito mababawi pa. Nagkaroon ako ng anak sa ibang babae. Humantong nanaman sa gulo nung malaman ng asawa ko at pati mga magulang nya ay nakialam na... Hanggang sa ilang saglit at nauwi na kami sa hiwalayan. Hindi nako umuuwi ng bahay pero ako pa din ang nagbabayad ng renta at kuryente. Ako din ang nagpapa-aral(Private School) sa anak naming lalake (nag-iisang anak namin). Anu man ang kailanganin ng anak ko sa iskwelahan,baon, libro, damit, sapatos, uniporme at ibang gastusin ay ako pa din ang nagbabayad at bumibili. Ang gusto pa nga nung magulang ng asawa ko ay ako pa din daw ang bibili ng pagkain ng anak ko kahit dun na sila nakatira sa mga byanan ko dahil nag desisyun ang asawa ko na dun na sila, at kaya ko naman binitawan na ang nirerentahang bahay, wala na rin naman nakatira at hinakot nilang lahat ang mga pinundar kong gamit. At ngayon naman bukod sa lahat ng yan ay gusto pa ng asawa ko na magbigay ako ng sustentong pera (in-cash) buwan buwan, at kung hindi idedemanda daw nya ako ng concubinage.

Ako naman po ay walang tinatakbuhang responsibilidad, ngunit isa lamang po akong ordinaryong empleyado na sumasahod ng kinse-mil sa isang buwan, ibawas nyo pa dyan ang mga tax at loan sa PAG-IBIG at SSS, suma total ng nakukuha ko ay nasa limang libo mahigit tuwing kinsenas. Kung iisipin nyo kung papano ko ito napagkakasya ay dahil na din po sa tulong ng aking kapatid at iregular na sideline. Kung ako lang po sana ay kumikita ng sapat ay maibibigay ko po siguro lahat ng gusto niya. Kailangan ko din namang buhayin ang aking pangalawang anak, may karapatan din naman siguro ang anak ko sa ibang babae.

Ang focus ko lang po ay yung child support. Ano po ba ang aking karapatan tungkol dito kapag akoy nademanda ng concubinage? At kung ako po ay makukulong papano ko pa masusustentuhan ang mga bata?

Maraming Salamat po!

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8 Re: child support on Fri Jan 21, 2011 5:09 pm

attyLLL


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if she files a case of concubinage, then you will have the right to file your counter affidavit. the obligation to support does not disappear but if you have nothing to give, then that's that.


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9 Re: child support on Fri Jan 21, 2011 9:28 pm

randy3326


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attyLLL,

Maraming salamat po sa advice nyo.

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10 Re: child support on Mon Jan 24, 2011 10:22 am

dream123


Reclusion Temporal
good morning atty!

anu po ang mangyayari kung nasa fiscal na ang kasong economic violence RA 9262, at hinihintay na lang ang resolution ng fiscal. kapag natuloy po ang kaso sa RTC, maoobliga din po ba ang lalaki na magbigay ng child support kahit na hindi pa nananalo ang kaso?

at kung sakaling manalo naman po ang kaso, anu po ba ang sistensya sa lalaki?


thanks po.

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11 Re: child support on Tue Jan 25, 2011 11:33 am

attyLLL


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once filed in the court, you can file a motion to ask the court to obligate the father to provide provisional support.

sentence will depend on which provision of vawc he was charged with.


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12 Re: child support on Tue Jan 25, 2011 6:21 pm

dream123


Reclusion Temporal
thanks atty.

what do you mean by rejoinder?

the fiscal told me that my ex can file a rejoinder after i passed by reply-affidavit.

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13 Re: child support on Wed Jan 26, 2011 5:18 pm

attyLLL


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the fiscal is correct.

rejoinder is an affidavit to reply to reply-affidavit.


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14 Re: child support on Wed Jan 26, 2011 9:11 pm

dream123


Reclusion Temporal
aawwwww.. i thought my reply would be the end..

anyhow, if my case will go to court, can the PAO lawyers represent me? since they are also the ones who are helping me with my affidavits.

thank much!

appreciate it.

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15 Re: child support on Thu Jan 27, 2011 7:57 pm

seamanship


Arresto Menor
Good PM po! Ako po ay isang seaman.single. gusto ko lang po sana magpa legal advice regarding sa ex girlfriend ko na balak akong kasuhan ng abandonment dahil may anak ako sa kanya. Ako po ang gumastos ng panganak nya and nagbibigay po ako ng sustento nung nakasakay pa ako ng barko. Ngayon po na stand by ako ng 6 months and di ako nakapagbigay ng sustento dahil wala naman po akong sweldo. Hindi ko pa rin po nakita ng personal ang anak ko dahil naging busy po ako sa pagreview ko for board exam while andito sa lupa. Binabantaan nya ako ngayon na baka hindi na ako muling makasakay dahil kakasuhan nya ako. Maari po ba yun kahit na nagbibigay ako ng sustento sa kanya?

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16 Re: child support on Thu Jan 27, 2011 8:56 pm

attyLLL


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yes, she can charge you with economic violence. as you admitted you have not given support for 6 months. your defense can be that you are not depriving your child of support because you want to control them, but because you are simply without money.


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17 Re: child support on Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:38 am

dream123


Reclusion Temporal
hi atty.

which is much better to file, criminal case economic abuse under ra 9262 or a civil case for filiation and support.

thanks.

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18 Re: child support on Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:41 pm

attyLLL


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it depends on the circumstances, evidence, and resources


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19 Re: child support on Thu Feb 03, 2011 7:39 am

dream123


Reclusion Temporal
actually, i already filed RA9262 against my ex but it seems the process is so slow and i needed him to provide financial support since i am already running out of budget for my child's needs. i just filed my reply-affidavit and there's still a rejionder before the resolution. and if ever it will get to the court it'a another battle for me to provide evidences etc...

if ever it will go to court, will my ex be now obliged to give financial support?
so i was thinking if it's much better if if just filed child support case...

pls enlighten me...

tnx

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20 Re: child support on Fri Feb 04, 2011 12:40 pm

attyLLL


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yes, i remember your case. he did not try to compromise with you? what did he allege in his counter affidavit as his defense?


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21 Re: child support on Fri Feb 04, 2011 7:25 pm

dream123


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atty, he compromised with me by giving only 6k a month. He do not want us to sign a written agreement for his support and refused to pay my hospital bills etc...

on his reply affidavit, he said that we just want him to increase his support and that he gives me money but he failed to mention that it was only on my first 4 months of pregnancy. and he said he attached the deposit slip but nothing was attached so in my reply i said that there was no deposit slip attached.

last December 2010, he gave 6k as promised but it stopped there because we had a fight again (bec he wants me to delete all the pictures of our daughter's baptism in my facebook account bec he told me his wife did not know that we have communication again, but i refused bec he do not want to bring our daughter to the hospital when she got sick). So he told me that he won't give me anymore and just file my reply-affidavit..

thank you

appreciate your help, atty.



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22 Re: child support on Sat Feb 05, 2011 9:08 am

attyLLL


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he will surely raise that you accepted the 6k from him. you can file a surrejoinder if you want. but after that, you can only leave it to the fiscal to resolve the case.


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23 Re: child support on Sat Feb 05, 2011 9:55 am

dream123


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yes, because he said he wanted to settle, but after that he stopped giving again so i have to continue with the case...

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