he usually makes bogus accounts when using social networking sites. he does not use his real name. even the email address he uses does not have his real. i know he does not have access to the computer nowadays as he had lost his job due AWOL. he applied for special enlistment but he told me he quit because he cannot cope up with the hardcore training. that does not seem to me like a valid reason. (i mean, what does he expect -- he did not go to a military school and he wants to get the privilege of a soldier easy as pie?) another reason for him not being tracked online is that the woman he's living together with now prohibited him from going online. i found out this was the same reason we lost communication during the time i was about to give birth to our daughter. so i realized he has this relationship with the woman more than a year now. word-of-mouth is that this woman provides him with financial needs... i will try to ask his parents for their postal address so i can send him a letter as you have advised me. thank you again for your kind reply. your site really helps.
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