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All I want is my son's rights

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1 All I want is my son's rights on Sat Feb 26, 2011 8:07 am

Giselle


Arresto Menor
Good morning everyone. I'm new here. Nagbabakasakali na makakuha ng legal advice ng libre, hndi ako ganun ka-well off para mkapaghire ng legal service na may bayad. That's why I tried searching online for possible answers before I make my move. I have a 3-week old son, if I may say, victim ako ng panloloko ng isang lalake, seafarer ako before. During my relationship with him, ang buong akala ko he's not commited to anyone, we were ok during those times, until I got pregnant. Nung una, ok pa, nalaman ko lahat about his life nung nabuntis nko, na he cant marry me daw kc he's married with his first wife, and nsa process ng annulment ang marriage nila, and then nuon ko lng din nalaman na may ka-live in xa ngyon. Tinanggap ko un lahat para sa anak ko, Gusto ko lng suportahan nya baby namin kc parang hndi ko pa kaya mag-isa, breadwinner ako sa family namin. Hanggang sa umuwi nko, months after ko umuwi, wala na, nawala na lahat ng pinangako nya, he promised to support the child, na ssustentuhan nya kahit ano mangyari samin. He even signed an affidavit na inaacknowledge nya ung bata, and he would give financial support til his age of majority, kaso may katangahan ako, nung pinirmahan nya un onboard, pinunit ko kc we had a fight that night, ininsulto nya kc famili ko, and I was so sensitive during those times cguro dahil din sa buntis ako, so pinunit ko, pero I was able to bring it home at napagdikit2 ko ulit, the problem is ayaw inotarize nung atty na pinagpagawaan namin dahil daw sa barko pinirmahan, the law is saying daw na kung san pinirmahan, dun dapat inotarize. Which is hndi nmn minention sa mother ko nung pinagawa ung affidavit, to think na sinalaysay lahat ng mother ko buong pangyyari, ung atty pa ang nagsabi na ipadala ung letter sa barko at papirmahan. hanggang dun nlng ung nagawa kong action, kc nawalan na ko ng pagasa. Ngayon, he's so vocal na hndi nya pananagutan ang bata, sobra nya pinoprotektahan ung kalive-in nya without even thinking na anak nya ung pinaglalaban ko. I have all the possible evidences na magpapatunay na inaacknowldge nya ung bata, I kept all his txt messages and messages sa mail. He keeps on telling me na gawin ko lahat ng gusto ko, kung gusto ko daw magdemanda, gawin ko at hndi xa natatakot, hndi ko daw pwede ipanakot ung pnirmahan nya dahil hndi nya daw totoong signature un, I was able to keep that message too. And ang latest txt nya, kc I tried asking money para sa vaccination ni baby, wala daw xa ibbigay kahit singkong duling, nuon pa daw cnsabi na nya na hndi nya pananagutan ang bata (which is a big lie, nevr xa nagmention nun from the start) kung hndi ko daw kaya buhayin ang bata, ibigay ko sa knya, dugo at laman daw nya un, pero kung hihingan ko xa suporta wala daw xa ibbigay. Ibigay ko nlng daw sa knya. As usual, I kept his message na inaacknowldge nya ung bata, saying na dugo at laman nya. Nasasaktan ako para sa bata, sobrang ang sakit. Please, I hope somebody can help me figure out what to do. karapatan lng ng anak ko ang gusto ko ipaglaban sa knya, pero hndi ko alam pano magccmula. May laban ba ko just incase magfile ako ng kaso? Or meron nga ba kong pwedeng ifile against him? kc hndi nmn kmi kasal. Sad May way kaya para ma-hold xa at hndi makasampa onboard kung dadaanin ko xa sa legal.. please, I'm begging for help. Thank you, im hoping for answers. Thank you very much.

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2 Re: All I want is my son's rights on Sat Feb 26, 2011 6:20 pm

attyLLL


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i recommend you file a complaint at the prosecutor's office for economic abuse. if you are successful and a warrant of arrest is issued, have him arrested upon his return.


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3 Re: All I want is my son's rights on Mon Feb 28, 2011 10:03 am

Giselle


Arresto Menor
attorney, sinubukan ko po isearch ung economic abuse, and its grounds. Meron po bang ibang kaso ako na pwede ifile against him? I have all the possible evidences naman po na inaacknowledge nya ung bata dati. Ngayon po kc totally wla na kami communication, sinusubukan ko syang kausapin nang maayos para lang sa support sa baby, pero sinasalbahe nya ko sa mga messages nya. He's still using the same mobile number po, yung mga messages nya sa facebook, are still saved, though blinock na nya ko sa account nya, but that same account is still existing.

Sana po matulungan nyo ko, kasi totally problemado ako ngayon kung san ko kukuhanin yung mga pangangailangan ng bata, yung baby lang po ang inaalala ko talaga. Please attorney, I desperately need your advice.

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4 Re: All I want is my son's rights on Tue Mar 01, 2011 4:39 pm

attyLLL


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he has no obligation to you but to the child. deprivation of support is economic abuse under RA 9262. you don't need to communicate with him, just allege his last known address in the complaint.


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