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My ex-husband is threatening me

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1 My ex-husband is threatening me on Sat Mar 31, 2018 9:28 am

ramram19


Arresto Menor
3 yrs na kami hiwalay at walang anak, since sinoli nya ako sa family ko, at noon naman po ay hindi nya talaga ginampanan ang pagiging asawa nya sa akin dahil hindi nya ako sinusuportahan financially at wala din po akong trabaho noon, so ang aking mga magulang po ang nagpapakain sa amin, at sya ang pinapakain nya ay ang mga barkda at mga kamaganak nya kasama na po ang painom araw-araw. So nagkaroon ako ng anak sa iba at ngayon ay gusto nya iannull ko sya ako ang gagastos lahat or else kakasuhan nya ako. So nagusap kami nun march 25 2018 sa SM san pablo at ang sabi nya ay 3yrs dw at iaannull ko sya. Syempre ako takot kase my anak ako 6months pa lang po pumayag na ako at ako daw po gagastos lhat. At d ko dw po sya pwede kasuhan khit magkaanak n sya sa iba kase ako daw po ang nauna. Tapos dapat mgpipirmahan na po kame sa barangay na wala na kami pakialaman, pero umayaw po sya at ang gusto po ay humingi ng 200k at kahit di na daw po kme annulled kasi magpapagawa daw po sya ng bahay. At ang gusto pa po niya ay ilagay s kasunduan sa baranggay na bibigyan ko sya ng 200k, bayad ko daw po yun dahil nagkasala ako sa kanya. So syempre hindi ako pumayag kaya ang sabi nya ay magkita na lang daw po kami s korte. Ibigay ko daw po sa kanya in 1 year kahit 2 gives daw po or else ako na dw po ang bahala, choice ko na daw po yun. So yun po maghaharap na lang daw po kami s korte. Nagpunta po sya sa barangay hall ng baranggay namin at dun na po siguro ako siniraan sa mga tao dun. Grabe yun mental and emotional stress sa akin.Sana lang po ay hindi ako mabinat dahil kawawa naman po ang anak ko Makoconsider po ba itong harrassment/blackmailing and extortion? Makakasuhan nya po ba ako?
Sana po ay matulungan nyo ako.


Maraming salamat po.

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2 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sat Mar 31, 2018 6:31 pm

attyLLL


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3 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sat Mar 31, 2018 10:22 pm

ramram19


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Thank you for the advice. One more thing how about his threat? because he's requiring me to give him 200k pra dw po s bayad ko sknya or else idedemanda nya ko.

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4 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sun Apr 01, 2018 12:07 am

ramram19


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Wla naman po syang proof na sinuportahan nya ako s 3yrs n un. Pro my work nman po ako.Kahit po ba wala kami anak at hiwalay n kami, pwede po ba sya makasuhan ng economic abuse? Kasi kahit naman po nun nagsaama kami hindi po sya ngbibgay ng pangkain namin at gastos sa bahay instead magulang ko po ang nagpapakain sa amin while he was used to feed and drink with his friends everyday. Ang mali ko lang po kasi hindi ako nagreport noon pa lang kasi iniiwasan ko p ang kahihiyan.

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5 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sun Apr 01, 2018 8:12 am

attyLLL


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Sorry, I thought you were the husband; this is the first time I've heard of the guy asking for economic support from the wife in this forum.

His leverage against you is a charge of adultery. He will point to the child as evidence. What is your current situation? Are you living in with a new partner? Your kid, who is stated as the father on the birth certificate?

By any chance, did you have sex with him after he found out? that would be considered condonation


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6 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sun Apr 01, 2018 12:30 pm

ramram19


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Hindi po kame magkasama s bahay. At yun baby po ay sa aken po nakapangalan,wala po syang ama s birth certificate. Kanino po nkipgsex? sa ex ko po b? hindi po.Matagal na po kame hndi nagsasama ng ex ko. 3yrs napo. Sinoli nya na po ko s mga mgulang ko at sya na din po ang nagsabe na wala na po syang pkelam at responsibilidad sken.

Sa ngayon po ay nananakot sya. Ang gusto po nya ay bigyan ko sya ng 200k kapalit ng hindi nya pgdemanda sa akin, in a year time daw po.Pero nun una po ang gusto nya ay iannull ko sya pero ako lo ang gagastos lahat. Saan naman po ako kukuha ng ganon kalaki. 6months pa lang po ang baby ko. Single mom pa po ako. Kaya gulong gulo na po ako. Hindi na ako makatulog ng ayos. So ang sabi ng women's desk ay magsalaysay na lang daw po ako tapos papadalhan na lang daw po ng subpoena yun ex ko. Pero natatakot po ako talaga. Ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin?

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7 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sun Apr 01, 2018 1:54 pm

xtianjames


Reclusion Perpetua
Kasamaang palad, pwede ka talagang kasuhan ng ex mo. nasasayo kung makikipag settle ka sa kanya out of court or hindi. sundin mo na lang yung advise sayo ng womens desk.

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8 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sun Apr 01, 2018 2:23 pm

ramram19


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Pero tama po ba n harrasin nya ako.

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9 Re: My ex-husband is threatening me on Sun Apr 01, 2018 2:44 pm

xtianjames


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IMHO hindi pang harass yung ginagawa nya. kung gusto mo matigil sya, inform mo lang sya sa desisyon mo if makikipag settle ka or kung sasabihan mo sya na kasuhan ka na lang at sa korte na lang kayo magharap.

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