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Rights of legitimate family and its limits

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1 Rights of legitimate family and its limits on Fri Apr 15, 2011 10:56 am

krock20


Arresto Menor
Hi! Gusto ko lang po magtanong about sa case ng family ko and our rights as legitimate children.

Kinasal po ang mother and father ko sa simabahn at civil wedding too at the age of 21 (mama) and 17 (Papa). maraming naging babae si papa na naging dhilan ng hiwalayan nila. at the age of 7 i live without a father at ang tanging connection lang nmin is ung sustento nya samng mgkapatid na 2k or sometimes 3k per month. syempre as kids, di nmn nmin un iniintindi. we studied our elementary, and secondary education sa mga public schools so ok n smin ung ganung halga monthly for our expenses.

My mother is a CPA, when my father left us, my mother was always scolding us. she's been emotionally disturbed and hindi n xa ktulad ng dati. Nag AWOL xa sa work and eventually nwalan ng trabaho. she's attending gospel church believing na maaayos pa ang rel. nila ng papa ko basta mgdasal lng kmi ng mgdasal. for me and my younger brother, npakahirap na parang wlang mga magulang na gumagabay samin. my mother is always mad at us at sinisisi kami bkit p kmi pinanganak sa mundo. She's always cursing my father despite the fact na nagsisimba xa. may times na ok xa, but most of the time lagi xang galit. at mdlas na rin xang paranoid na lhat ng lalaki ay mga manloloko at masasamang tao.

as for my father, he invest a business sa isang babae and naging ka live in na nya ito until this day. may 3kids na sila and they are living happily while my mother and us, suffered many heartaches and emotional damage.. since ako ang panganay, nsa akin ang burden. anyway, naka graduate ako sa tulong din kahit pano ni papa and my brother graduated na din in college so sa ngaun ok nmn kami. never na namin inasahan xa since malalaki nmn na kami.

what bothers me, khit kilala ko personally ang kinakasama nya at pinakikisamahan na lang nmin xa ng kapatid ko, una dahil xa ang business partner ni papa at may joint account sila. xa ang nmuhunan sa negosyo, techinically xa din ang nagbibigay ng sustento sa amin dahil nga sa dlawa sila na ngbi business.
(un ang ini imply ng mga kamag anak ng papa ko)

minsan ko na rin nakikita ung mga tauhan nila papa.( He handles import and export of cars by the way), so pag anjan sila, umaasta si papa na parang hindi nya ako kilala sa harap ng mga tauhan nya. as if kinakahiya nya kami ng kapatid ko.. kibit balikat ko n lng un til one time, sinabi sakin ng hipag nya na ang kilala daw ng mga tauhan na pamilya nya ay yung kinakasama lang nya nagun at ang alam lng nila ay ung 3kids lng nila ang anak nya. they also went out of the country every summer or christmas for vacation, habang kami ng kapatid ko tumitirik n kakaantay ng mga delayed nyang padala. he always give alibi's like wla pang client etc. pero panay namn ang outing nila.

So kami ngaun ng brother ko nagtataka if nahihirpan ng ba xa mgpadala ng sustento or iniiwasan nya lang kami. dahil sa hirap ng buhay nmin at sa stress, dinala ko ang mama ko sa center for mental health para i pa check up ko xa. she was really different and we found out na bipolar II ang mood nya. nung nlaman ng tatay ko un parang me feeling ako na na relieve xa or something na happy p xa n ganun ung diagnosis ng mama ko.

one time din po namili kmi ng gmit sa sch and i found out yung gmit n atm ng ksma ni papa is surname nmin. So I asked myself kung kinsal ba sila ni papa. Kun oo, diba bigamy na un? Adultery na at bigamy pa.. so I’m really confused about the situation. Kawawa nmn pla ang mama ko kung ganon. They live well pero xa nagsa suffer.. I hope someone can give me and advice about this. Thank you for your time! Godbless!

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attyLLL


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you can request for a CENOMAR of your father at the NSO, it should come up with the report of his marriage to your mom and any other marriage. if he indeed contracted a second marriage, that is bigamy.

his living in together with another woman is concubinage.


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