thanks for the reply. yes we are not married but he acknowledged our son in the birth certificate. although he is not threatening not to bring my son back, I do not fully trust this person and is always worrying for the worse. although there might be some sour graping involved in my part, i am really not willing in this "hiram" setup bec: #1 he does not support the child, claiming he does not have enough money. #2 i supported myself financially, and at times it extended to his needs during my pregnancy and when we were still together. #3. he emotionally abused me and physically hurt me a few times.
You might understand why I cannot trust this person from the reasons I just gave. Since we ended the relationship recently, he gives me money every payday (probably so he can have some sort of right to borrow our son), but it was never a fixed amount and very minimal. The most i have received from him so far is P2,000.
Is there a way for me to settle this out? Thank you very much!