hmm .. let me share this one .. i hope you'll read it til end. I'm sorry its kinda long but I've summarized it already.
actually last year, her mother forced her to leave the house and that time, she's with her cousin. the main reason why? is because, we helped her about the school's financial problem of her youngest brother and supposed to be it's her mothers responsibility right? the mother has 30k debt at the school so, we have decided to help her. my gf's intention was to help and that's it. earlier on that story happened ..
her mother called at the house to borrow a money and ofcourse, we're really shocked to hear that. as far as i know she didnt even like me. so we have decided not to lend any money to her and we know that person is known as "palautang" anywhere and she always runs for those lending corps. that haunts her. she's always playing binggo at the malls. she's a irresponsible mother to tell you honestly.
so, to continue the story
.. my gf decided to leave their house ofcourse with my help, she stayed for 3 months at my crib with my family. her mother didn't stop calling at the house and we're really pissed off! so i talked to her and i told her that i dont know where her daughter is. (i did it for a good reason) my gf doesn't want any connection with them. (kuya and the mother) but the mother told me that, if i didn't bring her daughter back she will file a case of "KIDNAPPING" and that's obviously not true. she's accusing me for kidnapping and will bring police at our house. actually, she gone wild once but we did'nt mind it, again, we talked to her nicely and calm.
her mother make a story about my gf's reason for leaving their house. she told her son (kuya) that the reason why is to go with me. (and that is so childish reason mygoodness!) so the kuya get mad at us. very angry and that's the reason why he messaged us at facebook. (last june 2010) he used foul words, mentioning that he will kill us and etc.
because of that, i have decided to look for a better place where she can transfer. for a better reason that would benefit both of us. (my family and her). i told her to open a bank account and tell her father what happened and thank God, her father understood the situation and support her financially. so, they have decided that my gf will go back if he arrived. her father is seaman same as me.*even we have that such situation, it did'nt became a barrier for our study instead, we're really trying our best most especially me as a graduating college student. "Peaceful months had passed ..
my mom called and she's telling me that my gf's mother is at our house, so i did go home immidiately. i asked her frankly with respect if what she doing here and told me that she really needs her daughter's no. but i did'nt gave it at first, but she'll not go home. so, a few minutes of thinking .. i have decided to gave my gf's no. and told her that she'll not make any trouble. after that day ..
my gf txted me and telling me that her mother is waiting at the lobby and wants to talk to her so i replied, go and talk to her you're at the school anyway. later on, her mother cried and telling her that she have changed, realized something bla bla bla .. so, i told my gf why dont you give her a chance? she did it long time ago but nothing's changed according to her. BUT! after that "drama thing" her mom opened a topic about her godchild that is going to abroad etc. and asking for a money and be paid nextweek. yea yea yea .. we really dont know what to do with them.father arrived ..
my gf's father talked to them (family) that they will not cause any trouble with us. (my gf, me, my family). that, they will leave us alone. so that's the reason why my gf go back to their house. the father also wants peace and respect his daughter's decision, he just wanted her daughter's happiness or any of his children.AND NOW ..
we thought that they will not make any trouble against us now, but after a month, her mother and brother keeps on mentioning about us, damn. we're very tired of them. they're just keep on repeating it. when my gf will not provide money from them, that's the time they keep on repeating about us. its like, that's their way "pang laban" for her.
what's the best way to do? please. we really need help. my gf once said to his kuya about an action that she will do if he does make trouble but the kuya is'nt afraid. he said, "ipapakulong mo ako? sige! kala mo takot ako? inuutusan ka lang nung syota mong tibo tska nung mama niya. makita lng kita pati kaluluwa mo wla eh! papataying tlga kita! ako mismo papatay sayo" and that's the reason why i am asking for a legal actions that may help for them to stop.another question
, if my gf will leave again, if they will file a case against me, what would it be? what I've done wrong? we just wanted to be happy. I'm really from a nice family and a good reputation. they raised me well and with respect. that's why I'm protecting my family.