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1 Please help.... on Thu May 26, 2011 4:27 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Hi Atty. I am married since sept 2009, have 1 yo daughter. nung una masaya p op kami ng asawa ko n nagsasama. then bigla bigla po nagbago. last May 20, 2011 iniwan po nya kami ng anak ko. nuon p po hindi lng miminsan ginagawa po nya n iwan kami ng ganun ganun lang po. And every now and then po lage po nya ako tinatakot na iwanan kami ng anak ko. Parents po nya wala man lng po ginagawang steppra pagsabihan anak nila. Lage din po nya sinasabi n magbibigay lang sa anak ko kung gusto po nya at kahit umabot daw po kami sa court.

Atty. can i file support and abandonment or psychological abuse against him?

If ever magfile po ba ako at padadalhan siya ng demand letter and hindi po sya nakapagcomply sa demand letter at hindi po sya nakapunta sa scheduled na paghaharap, my case po ba un?

Ano po ba case nun?

Please help me po...

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2 Re: Please help.... on Thu May 26, 2011 6:48 pm

attyLLL


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do send a demand letter first. you can seek help from the dswd, but not necessary. if he does not give support, you can file a criminal case of economic abuse under ra 9262.

if he threatened you with violence, you can apply for a protection order from the court.


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3 Re: Please help.... on Thu May 26, 2011 10:24 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Hi Atty.

Thank you for the immediate reply. What if he will not comply with the demand letter? Can that be ground for contempt? Ok lng po ba mgfile na po agad kahit wala pa 1week po na umalis xa? Pero he done this to us several times in the past. iniiwn po kami ng basta basta.

Can you provide po sample demand letter?

And Atty. text po ng kuya nya ung threat po.."pakisabi jan sa asawa mo huwag mgpapakit saakin at kukutusan ko..."

is that valid po?

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4 Re: Please help.... on Fri May 27, 2011 5:44 pm

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many samples of demand letters on the net. after sending, no response, you can file a complaint at the prosecutor's office.


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5 Re: Please help.... on Fri May 27, 2011 7:05 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Hi Atty.

How about the treat from his family? And the last time he texted me, he is disowning my child. what are the particular cases i can file to him?

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6 Re: Please help.... on Sat May 28, 2011 5:44 pm

attyLLL


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aren't you married? you referred to him as 'asawa'. he can't disown the child now.

yes, you can initiate a complaint for threats for the text message.

you can file a criminal case of economic abuse under ra 9262.


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7 Re: Please help.... on Mon May 30, 2011 10:35 pm

berna


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Atty what if magbigay po xa pero not enough or kung gusto lng po nya na ibigay, pwede po ba un? ano po ba basis pag compute ng support pra sa baby q po? and pwede po ba siya magkaroon ng gf kahit hindi p po kami legally separated o hiwalay? ano po ba pwede q ikaso sknya if ever? thank you po

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8 Re: Please help.... on Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:48 pm

attyLLL


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if you will file a case against him, prepare that the support will stop.

make a list of the needs of your child and the costs.

if he is your husband, then he should not have a gf. repeated marital infidelity is considered a crime. also if they live together. ra 9262 or concubinage.


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9 Re: Please help.... on Thu Jun 02, 2011 8:41 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Hi Atty just want to ask, i file at the baranggay, what if hindi sya sumipot? and paano po kung bumalik sya at makipagbalikan nlang instead pra hindi sya maoblidge n magbigay ng support pwede po ba yun? paano po pag ulitin po nya ulet na iwan kami? ano po ba dapat ko po na gawin? tulungan nyo po aq magdecide. thank you po

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10 Re: Please help.... on Thu Jun 02, 2011 11:24 pm

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he is staying in your bgy? how was he notified of your complaint?

i recommend that you wait for what he does. all your questions are speculative.


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11 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:39 am

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty hindi na po sya nakatira sa brgy name, hindi ko po alam saan sya nakatira ngayon. pero nagwork po sya sa kabilang baranggay same municipality po. And Atty un po ang concern ko pa po, kasi hinihintay ko po sya bumalik pa, i'm still hoping kya hindi ko pa po binibigay sa kabilang baranggay ung endorsement po. tama lang po ba na ituloy ko parin po yun kahit babalik po sya and makipagayos? naguguluhan po kasi ako.

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12 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:54 am

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i recommend you make that decision when he communicates with you. let's see first if he will appear at the bgy


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13 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:53 am

berna


Arresto Menor
sa tingin nyo po Atty it would be best na ituloy ko na po sa brgy even though my possibility na makipagayos po sya? please help. thank you.

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14 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 10, 2011 5:20 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty he refused to go to baranggay. what should i do? I want him also back for my daughter. I think he is with other woman. ano po gagawin ko po?

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15 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 10, 2011 5:22 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty on support computation ano po ba dapat ang included dun? pwede po ba ung rason nya na ibibigay lang po ung kaya nya? pwede po ba ang ganun? my baby is 1 year old po.

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16 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 10, 2011 7:10 pm

attyLLL


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i don't think the computation for support is relevant if he isn't even appearing at the bgy. your next step is to file a complaint at the prosecutor's office for economic abuse.


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17 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:56 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty if I will file a case how long it will be and what can be his charge? makukulong po ba xa? Can I also charge him abandonment? even if he is saying na pinalays ko daw sya kahit hindi namn po.

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18 Re: Please help.... on Fri Jun 10, 2011 11:02 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty nagpunta din po pla sya sa bhay nagbigay lng ng gatas & pampers, which i think not sufficient, lagi nya rason marami daw xa binabayaran and nagtatago na xa ngayon kasi hindi ko sya makontak. economic abuse parin po b kaso nya? VAWC hindi po ba pwede? marital infidelity?

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19 Re: Please help.... on Sun Jun 12, 2011 11:05 am

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economic abuse is vawc.


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20 Re: Please help.... on Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:18 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty just want to ask, if ipupunta po ba sa DSWD ano po mangyayari sa asawa ko. Binalik na din po nya pati wedding ring namen, pwede po ba un? lagi po nya sinasabi laban daw nya ung pinalayas ko sya kaya xa umalis kahit hindi ko naman sya pinalayas. then the other day ngpunta sya sa bhay namen kasi daw namimis nya baby namen, kinausap ko sya sabi nya ayaw na daw nya bumalik saakin taz un binalik po nya wedding ring namen. considered marital infidelity po ba ginawa nya? And pwede ko po ba hindi na ipakita baby ko sa kanya? pero hihingi parin ako sustento para sa anak ko.
Please help po.

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21 Re: Please help.... on Tue Jun 14, 2011 10:41 pm

attyLLL


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the dswd will call him to a conference.

he has a right to visit his child. if you refuse, he can file a case to enforce his right.

you will have to prove marital infidelity. return of the ring has no legal significance.


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22 Re: Please help.... on Wed Jun 15, 2011 9:26 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty sa DSWD what would be possible na mangyari po? Ano po ba mga possible discussions sa DSWD? what are the grounds for Marital Infidelity? Is it considered ground ung sa facebook account nya known by all people SINGLE status nya. What if hindi po sya magbigay ng support pwede po ba hindi ko na pakita anak ko? And if ever po ba na magkaroon ng settlement o kung anuman usapan sa DSWD, pwede po ba na makipagrelasyon sya sa iba na hindi ko parin sya pwede kasuhan?

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23 Re: Please help.... on Thu Jun 16, 2011 2:31 pm

attyLLL


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the dswd will try to mediate a settlement between you and an arrangement for visitation and support.

you'll need much better evidence than facebook status.

there is no legal basis to refuse visitation by virtue of failure to give support.

no, it will not be considered basis for him to have another relationship.


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24 Re: Please help.... on Sat Jun 18, 2011 7:10 am

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty nagpunta po ako sa DSWD pero sabi po nila direct na daw po sa PAO, totoo po ba na wala na daw po sila pakialam sa mga ganitong cases? paano po ba gumawa nung affidavit if ever punta po sa PAO? Atty pwede prin po ba case sa asawa ko abandonment 'yung pag alis po nya na yun na wala po paalam at wala ako sa bahay? and he keeps on insisting kasi daw pinalayas ko sya, un po lagi nya sinasabi and pwede po ba na irefuse po nya na bigyan ung anak ko ng sustento? reason po kasi nya marami xa binabayaran at wala nang matira sakanya. and tinatakot po nya ako na pag nagdemanda daw po ako lalo daw po wala kami mapapala at makukuha skanya. pwede po ba yung ganun?

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25 Re: Please help.... on Sun Jun 19, 2011 8:47 pm

berna


Arresto Menor
Atty ano po ba dapat kong gawin? ano po ba ung amicable settelement? tanong ko lang din po, may nagsabi din po kasi na pumunta daw po ako sa pulis since hindi tinangaap ng dswd? pwede po ba un? very complicated na po, cnxa na po...it's just for my baby's welfare.

Atty ask ko lng din po, kasi un po lagi nya sinasabi, malaki namn daw po sahod ko kaya kahit hindi na daw sya magbigay, pwede po ba yung ganun?

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