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RA 9262 naging RA 7610?

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1 RA 9262 naging RA 7610? on Thu Jun 02, 2011 5:06 am

dragonnite75


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Magandang Araw po sa inyo.Nais ko po huminggi ng opinion sa aking problema.

Nakapag file na po ako against sa ex-highschool bf ko. nagkabalikan kami oct 2009 meron sya asawa pero iniwan nya na ito at nagsama kami sa isang bahay kasama 2 ko anak. By march nabuntis ako but sa panahon na yun pinababalik sya ng magulang nya sa asawa nya. Kailanggan daw nya sumunod kasi may sakit sa puso ang nanay nya at ayaw nya hatakihin ito. Sabi nila they will provide financial support pero kahit sa natal checkup,labroratory, vitamins,gamit ng bata at etc wala naman sya binibigay.Makapag bigay lang sya eh maliit na halaga lang. May parents ang gumastos sa hospital ko. Wala sila anak ng asawa nya so ito ang una nya anak at una lalake apo.

Nakapag file ako bago mganak ng RA 9262 dahil panay drawing lang sinasabi nila. Dumating ang subpeona ng end of dec. Dec 8 nagpaalam sa akin at magtrabaho na daw sya sa dubai.Wala na sya dito sa pinas. Bago sya umalis sya mismo ng register ng birth ng bata at acknowledge naman nya.

Now dumating sa akin ang resolution naka lagay "evidence adduced shoed probable cause to charge of RA 7610 not RA 9262. W/o any justifiable reason can't provide the child needs. Since she is not married she not entitled to support latter."

1. Bakit po naging RA7610 at hindi RA9262?
2. Ano po ba ito criminal case or civil case?
3. Pwede po ba ako magdemand ng support kasi hindi po ako makapag trabaho dahil ako nagaalaga ng baby.Hindi ko tuloy mabigyan ang needs ng 2 ko anak.
4. Pwede ko ba obligahin ang asawa or parents nya for support? or his assest like land title etc.
5. Is it possible na pwede ko sya mapauwi from dubai? poea, agency at embassy?

Ngayon nagmamakawa sya retrac ko daw kasi meron na sya warrant of arrest. magpasalamat na lang daw ako kahit paano meron sya pinadadala. Kung ano lang naisipan halaga padala o hindi magpadala. Nung dec 2k, feb 3k, itong april nakuha nya maglasing at nagastos daw nya yung pera.Magaling sya gumawa ng kwento, maglie. gusto ko nag security for support. Dahil sa status ko nasira ang career at family ko.Ngayon I am in depression it affected my emotionally, pychological, physical effect sa amin ng baby at mga anak ko.

Sana po mabigyan nyo mo ako ng kunting liwanag dito sa aking problema.salamat po

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2 Re: RA 9262 naging RA 7610? on Thu Jun 02, 2011 11:04 pm

attyLLL


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without reading the entire resolution, can't tell why the prosecutor appreciated 7610 rather than 9262, but that's a heavier charge than 9262 if it's child abuse.

this is a criminal case. but very difficult to get him deported. you can threaten to write his employer and the philippine embassy.

tell him that he should start sending a larger amount and if he is consistent, you will desist from prosecuting the case when you have a written agreement and only when he is here.


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3 Re: RA 9262 naging RA 7610? on Fri Jun 03, 2011 3:55 am

dragonnite75


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This is a email he sent me yesterday. Sa aking view he is just thinking his own welfare. Pero nung buntis pa ako at nakikipag ayos ako to have a settlement ayaw nya. Kasi mauubliga daw sila magsupport. Kaya pala nya mag bail pero nung expenses ko during the pregnancy at birth wala man lang contribution. Dapat twins ang anak namin pero sa stress at depression i incur nawala yung isa. pagkatapos nya sabihin magsasama kami pagdating ng obligasyon mag u-turn sya sa magaulang at aswa nya. Napatunayan lang nya na hindi sya baog.

"After I learned that you filed a Criminal Case to me, I just got mad but that didn't mean I will do some drastic action against you. I ask or shall I say pleaded you to please reconsider everything. I don't want to drag other people to this and also you reputation as a woman if this will push thru. I don't want court hearing and everything. We can settle this among us and this might be a wake up call to everyone in our circle that this is really the reality of things that has been done and to act on it. I respected you as woman and also as the mother of my child that's why i do not act unnecessarily to avoid complications and to have a smooth sailing on this path of yours. But it seems that you are always in a hurry to accomplish things when thing need to polish out and to carry out the good things. I know what is in your mind but in every dealings and every time we have a chat or a talk i talk to you civilly and in a nice manner.

actually, di ko nga alam kung nagawa mong i pa dismiss ung case mo. Thinking this past few days, I understand you point but did you see what will be the consequences of your actions. You filed a case against me so that means i now have a criminal record so i will not be able to work here and also locally in the phils. Also if you continue that case, I will be deprived of an income and my work to earn an income for me to at least have a support for our son. The amount of bail bond the court is asking is enough to cover payment for your delivery and also his baptism expenses and to buy some stuff needed by our son. Come to think of it that i will be earning at least 1,500 dirhams then i will have to save for that bailbond then sino na naman ang kawawa. Wala nang matitira at wala na ring padala for support although it is only 400 dirhams. Di ko na maasahan ung isa sa problemang ito dahil galit na galit na sa akin. aside from that ung gastos pa sa attorney and also ung abala na sana kumikita e wala. Ewan ko na. Sabi ng tatay ko friday ( june 2, ) kung di mo maiatras ung kaso, labas na ang arrest warrant ko. I do not know if you know it o nakikinig ka lang sa sabi ng ibang tao. Alam ko mahirap magpalaki mag isa ng bata lalo na may dalawa kang alaga diyan na halos makukulit. Never mind your first born malaki na iyan."


dahil sa ginawa nya nasira lahat ng plano ko at hindi ako makapg trabaho. I want him to suffer what he had done.sasabihin wala pera pero nakakabili ng bagong gadgets, cellphone aircon etc.

upon understanding the resolution kaya nging RA7610 dahil hindi naman daw kami kasal at ng live in lang kami. How about me i breastfeed I need nourishment to produce breastmilk. I am forced to formula milk I don't enough milk to give.

1. can i obligate his parents or wife for support because his not here in the phil and he keep on insisting he had no work ek ek ek?

2. What else can I do for him to suffer what he had done? He left me with the bay tapos sya nagpapasarap sa dubai ng kain tulog.nagpapalapad ng katawan. ng papalanggo sa alak.support para sa bata hindi nya mabigay.

nakakahiya sa knila they are active members ng church at leaders ng couples. sabihin ba naman he is not held responsible during my pregnancy kasi hindi pa daw sya tatay.magiging tatay lang sya once lumabas ang bata.

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4 Re: RA 9262 naging RA 7610? on Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:05 am

attyLLL


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no, only the father is obligated to provide support, and only for the child, not you.

spoiled career and life, that's not actionable from a legal standpoint.

what i recommend is that you get a lawyer or representative to negotiate. the case cannot be withdrawn unless he appears in court anyway. my suggested terms are that he gives a lumpsum now for all your medical expenses then a written commitment for continuous support.

you will withdraw your complaint only if he has been consistent with support, and when he returns to be arraigned.



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5 Re: RA 9262 naging RA 7610? on Fri Jun 03, 2011 2:59 pm

dragonnite75


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Hirap sa kanya panay volume lang salita nya kulang sa gawa. Ako pa tinakot nya na mawawalan kami ng sustento eh ngyon pa lang eh hindi nya mabigay kailaggan ng bata. Yung pinaggastos ng pangangank ko eh para sa sa cataract operation ng mami ko. Ngayon nagdudusa ang mami ko dahil hindi makapag opera samantalang ng promise sya sa magulang ko magbabayad sya. Sa paguugali meron sya wala sya isang salita.

*Can I have a penalty once hindi sya nagbigay or kulang ang binigay nya? For sure sa simula lang ang salita nya magbibigay sya and he will give excuses as always.hanggang makakatakas tatakas sa obligasyon.

* Can I obligate him to give me copy of his contract so that I would know how much he is earning?Including ba earning yung nakukuha nya tip?

*Can I obligate him to put and include my son as his benificiaries and heirs? problema ko what i heard nung ngusap kami noon ginagawa ng wife nya nililipat ang ownership ng properties nila sa parents or friends. Gusto kasi ng wife nya wala makukuha yung bata mana na kahit ano. Gusto nya kanya lahat.

* kung namatay ba sya wala na pwede sino obligate sa support ng bata? he has asthma at hypertension lagi sinasabi mamatay daw sya agad.

gusto ko lang ma secure ang support ng bata at hindi makatakas sa obligasyon ang tatay na panay yabang at sarili inisip.

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6 Re: RA 9262 naging RA 7610? on Fri Jun 03, 2011 3:51 pm

attyLLL


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if you proceed, see my previous advice. i'll just add that he should execute an affidavit acknowledging that he is the father.

you can ask for anything, but they can refuse. it all depends on what you agree on. good luck.


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