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1 mistress now on Thu Jun 16, 2011 6:48 pm

bluetooth


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ako po ay isang mistress for 11 yrs.. im 33 yrs old .... may 1 anak na po ako nung 17 yrs old pa lang ako sa ex -bf ko at di kami kasal at wala na din communication..
nung 22 yrs old ako naging kami na po ni married man at nagka-anak ng 2 ..di po sila hiwalay ng wife niya till now (still living in the same roof)at di rin po alam ng wife nya ang tungkol sa amin 4 po ang anak nila..di rin po kami nagsasama nakatira po ako sa magulang ko at nagkikita lang minsan sa labas.. alam ko po na married cya mula umpisa pero sabi nya nung una on the rock sila at malapit na maghiwalay... yung unang anak namin wala po cyang acknowlegement sa birth certificate ayaw nya po ipalagay sa birth certificate yung pangalan nya at ayaw nya pumirma..ayoko na po matorture ako sa pag iisip dhil masakit din po yung di ma-acknowledge kaya sinunod ko na lang cya,, after 7 yrs nagkaanak pa kmi at pinilit ko po cya isulat ang pangalan nya at pumirma sa BC kaso yung pirma po nya iniba nya sa original na pirma nya.. may mga pictures kmi magkakama pero most of it stolen kc ayaw nya po papicture dahil baka daw may makakita etc.. tinatakot nya po ako na pag nalaman daw ng wife nya dedemanda daw kming dalawa at makukulong totoo po ba na pwede ako makulong... di naman po ako yung kontrabidang kabit sa pelikula maging mabait at sunud sunuran nga po sa kanya
at di ko naman po nais na maghiwalay sila.. matagal ko na din po gusto humiwalay pero ayaw po nya.. wala na din po akong choice dhl wala akong trabahao natatakot ako na walang paipakain sa anak namin... ganito po ang tanong ko

1. ano po ang pwede ikaso sa akin kung malalaman ng wife nya pwede po ako makulong sigurado naman po na labis siyang masasaktan kaya alam ko po na gugustuhin nya ko managot
2. kung sakaling mamamatay po cya may makukuha po ba yung dalawang anak namin kahit yung isa wala po siyang acknowledgment,,ano po ang pwede ko gawing evidence
3. may nabili po cyang property na nakapangalan sa akin maaari po bang mabawi yun?
4. kung makikipaghiwalay na po ako at humingi ng sustento sa kanya ano po ba ang halaga ng pwede ko hingiin..may kaya naman po sya sa buhay..

salamat po...

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2 Re: mistress now on Thu Jun 16, 2011 8:45 pm

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1) read these threads: http://www.google.com/cse?cx=partner-pub-6855083666886697%3Aswhy8nr9q5q&ie=ISO-8859-1&q=concubinage+destierro&sa=Search

2) the one without acknowledgement will not be entitled. i recommend you ask him to sign an affidavit of acknowledgment. the other one will be entilted, but the hard part is enforcing their right against the legitimate family.

3) yes, if it can be proven he was the one who paid for it.

4) you can ask for any amount but it will depend on whether he will agree.


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3 Re: mistress now on Fri Jun 17, 2011 7:53 am

bluetooth


Arresto Menor
thank u po reply...
follow up question lang po..
dun po sa property pwede din po ba yung legal family nya ang bumawi? o cya lang...
kung ipangalan naman po sa anak namin? pwede pa rin po ba mabawi?
tungkol naman po dun sa right ng anak namin nabanggit nyo na "but the hard part is enforcing their right against the legitimate family" ano po ibig nyo sabihin?,, possible pa din na di nila ma-avail yung right nila?
thank u po ulit...

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4 Re: mistress now on Fri Jun 17, 2011 8:16 am

bluetooth


Arresto Menor
also po.. about sa concubinage..
The criminal act of concubinage is present when a husband commits any of the following acts:

(a) Keeping a mistress in the conjugal dwelling;
(b) Having sexual intercourse with a woman other than his wife under scandalous circumstances; or
(c) Cohabiting with a woman not his wife.

meron po ba kaming pasok na grounds dyan..
di po kami living together pero inside the same subdivision im living with my parents...di rin naman kmi nagsesex under scandalous circumstances...in case na magrent kmi from other subdivision and he will pay for the rent and he will just visit us and our neghbors will knw that we are husband and wife does it consider po sa paragrapnh C ... thanks

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5 Re: mistress now on Fri Jun 17, 2011 10:06 pm

attyLLL


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even if your child has a right, but the legit family refuses to acknowledge it, then you would be forced to go to court to enforce his rights.

yes, the legit family can file an action to re-claim the property as an unlawful donation. it will be better to name it to the children, because he can donate legally to them.

as long as you don't live together, it won't be concubinage.



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6 Re: mistress now on Mon Jul 04, 2011 11:51 pm

bluetooth


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ask ko lang po halimbawa mahatulan ng destierro.. ano po ang limitaion nun bukod sa di ka pwede nanirahan sa napag usapang lugar?.. pano po kung may property ka sa lugar na un or business..
ask ko din po.., paano po maaayos yung birth cert ng anak ko na walang acknowledgment ng ama nya,, wala po ang name nya sa front at wala din sa back acknowledgment? nakaregister na po hanggang NSO 9 yrs ago na..
salamat po..

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7 Re: mistress now on Tue Jul 05, 2011 4:51 pm

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ask the father to execute an affidavit of acknowledgment and authority to use surname of the father and file it at the local civil registrar.


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