I am 2 and half pregnant now, and dealing hard who fathered the baby, he said that he is not ready emotionally, mentally. I set aside my feelings towards him, but its a different thing when it comes to the baby, he provide me once a support for the check up after telling him that I am pregnant, cause he want to make sure that I am really pregnant, and now I am asking permission to him if I can use his lastname, and he doesn't want to involve his last name nor he denies to sign any document pertaining in that it was his child if I give birth, but he promised me to support and protect the baby financially only verbally, I just want to make sure that it will be for real so I asked him again if we could put it in written agreement that he will provide monthly support to our Child but he refused again, he just told me to count on his words, if I insist to have it legalized he told me that he can't communicate to me at all but only to his attorney, my purpose of wanting or acquiring his last name is to have a sense of connection and I don't our child to grow and take a lot of question na bakit last name ko ginagmit ng anak ko. He just moved out here recently and he is always going out of the country for business trip, he is an entrepreneur and I don't know where he is right now, all I know is his condo location and I am not going there without permission, he is communicating with me now at skype but without opening his cam, my intuition is telling me 100 percent that he is here, and I don't know why his reason why he doesn't want to me to use his last name since according to our law here that it is my childs right. The moment I knew I was pregnant I quit my job since I am working in a call center and it was a graveyard shift I'm afraid that it will be hazardous to my child's health. What should I do please help.
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