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1 child support on Fri Jul 08, 2011 4:01 pm

wenawin


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Hi attorney,
Bumalik po ako sa Cebu galing Baguio noong August 2010. My boyfriend po ako noon dito tapos nang malaman niya na nandito ako sa Cebu gusto niyang mag usap kami. Noong una ayaw ko na sana kasi may nakapagsabi sa akin na mag pakasal na raw siya eh talagang gusto niyang mag usap kami para ma e explain niya sa akin ang lahat. Ang totoo pala ay hindi pa sure ang kasal nila... Dito siya umuuwi sa amin mula noong bumalik ako at nabuntis po ako.. Nang sinabe ko po na buntis ako parang naguluhan siya kasi mahihiya daw siya sa relatives ng kanyang gf. Sinabe ko naman sa kanya na ituloy mo ang pagpapakasal hwag mo lang pababayaan ang bata ok lang sa akin basta suportaran mo ang bata.
August 2010 till February 2011 pumupunta pa siya sa amin. 7 months pregnant na po ako noong march na ng decision talaga siya na mgpakasal siya pero hindi alam ng babae ang tungkol sa amin. Ikinasal siya noong April nanganak ako noong May, after a month pinuntahan ko siya para hingian ng suporta sa bata. Siya pa ang nagalit, sinabihan pa ako na bugbugin daw niya ako..

Attorney pwede po ba siyang makasuhan sa pagsabe niya sa akin na bugbugin ako?

Wala na ba akong magagawa kung ayaw talaga niyang magbigay? Alam naman niyang hindi ko kaya. Eto ang palagi kong sinasabe sa kanya na hindi ko kaya mag isip kang mabuti kung itutuloy mo ang pagpapakasal mo.

Makasuhan po ba siya sa hindi pag suporta sa bata?

Attorney may kaso po ba siyang haharapin na pumupunta siya sa amin at alam niyang buntis ako at itinuloy pa rin niya ang pagpapakasal? Sa puntong ito hindi pa po alam ng asawa niya ang sitwasyon namin

wena

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2 Re: child support on Fri Jul 08, 2011 8:35 pm

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i assume he didn't sign the birth certificate. you will first have to establish that he is the father. either you get him to admit it in an affidavit of you file a petition for filiation at the court.

do you have other evidence aside from your own testimony about the threat of violence? do you have a witness? you can file a case under ra 9262 but you have to be very credible.


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3 child support on Fri Jul 08, 2011 11:23 pm

wenawin


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He did not signed the birth certificate attorney. In fact, nakapangalan sa akin ang bata at hindi ko pinasulat ang pangalan ng kanyang ama sa birth certificate kz galit ako sa kanya... Can I still file for filiation?

Can I still demand for support from him kahit na hindi ko pinapasulat sa live birth ng aking anak ang pangalan ng kanyang ama?

Wala pong witness noong sinabe niya na bugbugin niya ako kung sakaling kulitin ko siya tungkol sa sustento sa bata kasi medyo distansiya kami sa mga kasamhan niya ng kami ay nag usap. Pero nung araw na yon nang umuwi ako at umiyak sinabe ko po sa mga kasama ko po ang sinabe niya.

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4 Re: child support on Sun Jul 10, 2011 8:43 pm

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yes, you can still file for filiation


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5 Re: child support on Thu Jul 14, 2011 9:00 am

wenawin


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Attorney
That time I approached him, he told me na manggulo lang daw ako sa marriage life niya at ang gusto ko lang daw mangyari ay paghiwalayin sila. Hindi kasi alam ng babae na may nabuntisan siya bago sila ikinasal.

Makakasuhan ba ako ng panggulo na kung sakaling mghiwalay sila ng asawa niya?
Eh, ang sa akin man lang ay gusto ko share kami sa responsibilidad

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6 Re: child support on Thu Jul 14, 2011 10:00 am

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i recommend you send a demand letter first.

you did interfere in their marriage and the wife might file a case of damages against you, but this does not prevent you from seeking support for the child.


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7 Re: child support on Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:00 pm

wenawin


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I really don't understand what demand letter is attorney?

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8 Re: child support on Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:20 pm

wenawin


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The wife can still file a case against me eventhough ngkarelasyon kami noon ng lalaki hindi pa sila kasal? Ikinasal sila ng April this year at nanganak ako ng May this year din. I have no intention and I dont want to interfere their marriage all I want is a child support. How can I ask a child support without interfering their marriage? Please advice me attorney... thanks

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9 Re: child support on Thu Jul 14, 2011 7:50 pm

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then the wife has no cause of action against you.

you can first send a letter demanding for support. if he does not respond, your problem will be to establish filiation. i recommend you first file a civil petition to establish that he is the father of the child.


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10 Re: child support on Sat Aug 06, 2011 10:58 pm

wenawin


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attorney,may demand letter po akong pinadala sa ama ng aking anak pero binalewala lang niya kahit na signed by the attorney pa yon.. binigyan lang siya ng 10 days to comply what I've asked pero no answer po siya. nw anung gagawin ko?

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11 Re: child support on Wed Aug 10, 2011 7:06 pm

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if you already have an attorney, you should discuss with him and the next step of filing a petition for filiation and support with the family court.


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