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father doesn't want to acknowledge our baby...what legal things should I do

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cheyannzze


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Good Day Attorneys!

Kagagaling ko lang po sa barangay hall,nagharap po kami ng father ng ipinagbubuntis ko kasi gusto ko maiayos ang future ng baby ko. Gusto ko pumirma siya ng waiver costing 3K for financial support mula ngaun sa pagbubuntis ko (im 5 mos. pregnant) hangang sa mkagraduate siya ng College (3k will increase in the time that my baby reach the age for going to school).

Ngayon po ang gusto ng father nito magbibigay siya ng sustento sa abot ng makakaya niya, ayaw niya magbigay ng price. Sa ngayon po naghahanap pa lang siya ng work.

Tinanong ko po siya kung iaacknowledge niya ba ang baby namin ang sagot niya sakin kaharap ng barangay officials ay hindi.

Ang worry ko po kapag pumayag ako ng sustento lang at hindi niya iaacknowledge ang bata wala na akong habol in the future kapag hininto niya ang suporta.

Ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin sustento lang po talaga ang habol ko sa kanya dahil di ko kaya ang gastos kung magisa lang ako.

Ok lang po ba na magpirmahan kame na magsusustento siya pero hindi niya ipapagamit apelyido niya,hindi niya iaacknowledge? legal po ba un? kung papayag ako may habol pa din ba ako incase na huminto siya sa pagsustento?

Please advise me, maghaharap ulit kame sa Barangay sa July 27.

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attyLLL


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even if you take the support now, you can still file a petition for filiation later on with the family court to prove that he is the father.


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cheyannzze


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Thanks sa response Attorney, what if hindi siya nakipag cooperate kahit isampa ko na sa korte.. anu po mangyayari sakanya?pwede po ba siya makulong?
sabi niya kasi sakin mamamatay daw siya pero hinding hindi niya matatangap baby ko Sad

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attyLLL


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a petition for filiation is not a criminal case.


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cheyannzze


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AttyLLL,

Nagusap ulit kame sa brgy nung father ng pinagbubuntis ko, nagkasundo kame sa 1 thousand pesos monthly habang nagbubuntis ako tapos share kame sa hospital bill pag nanganak ako. Saka lang magiincrease yung 1k pag may work na siya,sa ngayon mother niya ang magpprovide sakin ng 1thou.

About po sa surname payag na siya ipagamit yung surname niya. Ako na po ang umayaw sabi ko kahit wag na. Surname ko na lang ang gagamitin ng baby.

Meron pa po kasi siyang ibang nabuntis and I heard na papakasalan niya yun.

Tanong ko lang po if makasal na sila at dumating sa point na may work na siya at need ko na ng increase,

1.)pwede ba ako kasuhan ng future wife niya na ginugulo ko pamilya niya? Kahit na bago pa man sila ikasal eh alam na din niya na may obligasyon sa anak ko ang magiging asawa niya?

2.)tama po ba na kahit ako mismo ang umayaw sa surname niya at maghabol ng sustento incase nag stop na siya, pwede pa din ako mgfile ng petition for filiation?

Thanks attorney for reading my post.
God Bless us!

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attyLLL


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chezyanne, try to get an affidavit of acknowledgment from him so you will not have problems later on trying to prove that he is the father. you will no longer need to file a petition for filiation. also issue a receipt to him when you are receiving the P1000 and make him sign your copy

good idea not to use his name, but you can later ask him to file an authority to use surname of father so your child will have options.


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cheyannzze


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Hi Attorney,

Thanks for your response and advises, ask lang po sana ako ulit if you don't mind. I heard na sa September ikakasal na sa ibang babae yung father ng ipinagbubuntis ko pwede po ba ako magpapirma sa kanya ng Affidavit of Acknowledgment ngayon kahit hindi pa ako nanganganak? (mag 6 months pa lang po akong pregnant) gusto ko po kasi maiayos bago siya makasal sa iba, possible po ba yun?mgacknowledge kahit di pa lumalabas ang baby?

Please response, para alam ko po ang gagawin.
Thanks for your time and help.

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yes, i hope he is willing to sign it. have it notarized


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cheyannzze


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Hi Atty,

Nanghingi na po ako ng Affidavit of Acknowledgement sa father ng magiging baby ko kaso wala po siyang response.
(Sa Affidavit of Acknowledgment po ba dalawa kameng pipirma or siya lang?)
Nakatanggap na po ako ng 1k as sustento na napag usapan sa barangay pero mother nia ang nagpadala, mother niya ang nakalagay sa name.

I think he is not willing to sign any affidavit. Sept. 2 na ang kasal niya with other girl that's why I'm worried dahil I know his fiancee at malamang hindi matupad ang kasunduan namin sa Barangay dahil haharangin ng future wife niya.


Ask ko lang po if magkano ang usual fees pag nag file ng petition for filiation at kung sino po ang gagastos para sa DNA Testing.

Thanks po.

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attyLLL


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cost will also depend on which lawyer you retain.


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cheyannzze


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Hi Atty,

Update lang po. Nanganak na po ako premature baby @7months. Yung father ng baby ko ikinasal na sa ibang girl. Hindi po ako nakakuha ng affidavit of acknowledgment from the father, surname ko gamit ng bata.

Tinupad naman po nila ang kasunduan sa brgy. na 1thou habang ngbbuntis ako pero ung hospital bill po hindi pa cla ngbibigay.

Nagkasundo kami noon na share sa hospital bill may pinirmahan kami sa barangay hall since wala kaming communication ng father ng baby ang nakakausap ko lang po ung mother nia.

2 weeks na po akong nadischarge sa hospital tinext ko ung mother nia telling how much the hospital bill. Ang reply nia sa akin, naghahanap pa daw sya ng pera, text nalang daw sya pag may pera na.

Ako po nag shoulder ng hospital bill para makalabas kame ng baby. Need ko na po sana yung share nila asap dahil wala po akong source of income ngayon sa January pa ako pinababalik sa trabaho ko. Tinext ko ulit ung mother of my ex na kung pwede gawan ng paraan at magpauna muna sila kahit magkano hindi siya nagreply.

Atty pwede bang magbigay ako ng date para ibigay nila ung share nila sa hospital bill? And ano po ang pwede kong gawin kung sakaling hindi sila makapagbigay?

Pasensya na po I really need an advice. Thank you so much.

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attyLLL


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you can file a small claims case to enforce the bgy agreement. rules on sc.judiciary.gov.ph


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cheyannzze


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Thanks atty for your help.

Nagbigay sila ng 1thou and it's not hospital bill it's only my baby's allowance na kulang pa sa gatas at diaper.

I'm planning to file for small claim and also petition for filiation. Ok lang poh ba i file ito ng sabay? Kasi pinagkakalat ng kapatid niya na hindi niya anak ang bata dahil maagang lumabas (wala yatang idea about premature babies).
That's why I want DNA Testing para mapatunayan ko sa kanila.

My first step to do this is to go to fiscal's office ba? kaninong munisipyo sa municipality namin or sa municipality nila?

If ever sino po ang gagastos para sa DNA Test?

Pasensya na po sa mga tanong ko. and maraming salamat for helping.

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attyLLL


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for the small claims, proceed to the mtc where you live.

up to the parties to agree who will pay for the dna test, but someone has to.


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