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1 Abandonment on Fri Jul 29, 2011 2:32 pm

aeneid


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To Whom It May Concern,

Good Day Attorney.. Itatanong ko lang po kung anong tamang ikaso sa ex bf ko 29 years old nagtratrabaho sa customs. Engaged po kami pero nagbago ang lahat nun madelayed po ako, nun 2mos nkong walang period sinamahan pa niya akong magpacheck up after nun di na siya nagpakita ngayon mahigit 3mos na po akong buntis di nya ako pinanagutan masama pa nito despite na alam nya na my congenital heart disease ako iyon ang sinukli niya sa pagtanggap ng family ko sa kanya. Ang tanong ko po: 1. Ano po ang dapat kong ikaso sa pag-abanduna sa amin ng baby ko? 2. Pwede po ba na sa akin naka-apelido yun baby ko pero nakadeclared cya na ama even w/o his signature?(dahil di na po cya nagpapakita) 3. Mababawi ko po kaya ang mga expenses sa mga lab test at pagpapacheck up ng parents ko sa akin unemployed po kc ako ngayon nahihiya po ako sa magulang ko (pag naisipan minsan ng ex ko tumatawag naman siya pero pag expenses na usapan nabibingi na siya) 4. Sa ngayon wala pa po akong means to file any case at him pero inaalam ko na po para mapaghandaan ko po ang dapat na steps para balikan siya once na makaligtas ako at baby ko sa panganganak ko at nakabawi nko sa buhay lets say mga 3years from now pa po ako makaraos financially pwede pa din po ba ako magfile ng kaso sa ama ng baby ko? for financial support na din. Hoping for your response. salamat po.

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2 Re: Abandonment on Fri Jul 29, 2011 6:11 pm

attyLLL


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you can ask for support, but if he refuses, your remedy is to file a petition in court for support and reimbursement of your expenses.

he cannot be listed as the father unless he acknowledges the child.

you can establish filiation between the child and the father as long as both are still alive, but the earier the better


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3 Re: Abandonment on Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:25 pm

aeneid


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To Atty,

Follow up question po pwede po bang makulong ang ex bf ko sa di pagsupporta sa anak niya? Ilan taon po? magkano po ang bail? gusto ko po siya makulong para magtanda siya sa ginawa niya sa akin... Salamat po.

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4 Re: Abandonment on Fri Sep 09, 2011 12:39 am

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you will have to file a criminal complaint of economic abuse first against the father. it is bailable and probationalble, but he can end up with a criminal record on his nbi.


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5 Re: Abandonment on Sat Sep 10, 2011 2:47 am

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Hi again Atty. tanong pa po kasi yun ex bf ko na yun nagkaroon ng 3 anak sa ex gf na nakaleave in nya sabi nya 2 years na daw silang hiwalay ng makilala niya ako. Ayon dahil nagtiwala ako, naniwala,binigyan siya na pagkakataon at umasa ako na natuto na siya sa past relationship nya pero hindi kami nagleave in, at eto I end up the same thing and worst bearing his new child, my 1st baby, nagpakunswelo de bobo siya na samahan nga ako at siya gumastos sa 1st check up after nun nagtago na nga.
Ang tanong ko po:
1. Since pangalawa na ako sa naanakan ano po ba ang nilabag niya? under Article 9262? (ayoko na po kasi na may sumunod pa sa akin at maulit uli dinanas ko)
2. May time din po na kahit ayokong makipagsex magpapa-awa effect or mangonsensya siya, so no choice ako kahit labag na sa gusto ko. Pakiramdam ko minsan wala ng respeto at nabababoy ako nun sandali na yun. (saan po uli ito pwedeng mag-fall under 9262?)
3. At huli pinakita niya dati yun income tax return niya sa akin as a proof na hindi siya kasal, hindi nakadeclare ang anak niya malamang ganun din sa sss niya. Ano po nilabag niya dun?
Salamat Po Uli Atty sa mga naunang response ninyo. God Bless . . .

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6 Re: Abandonment on Sat Sep 10, 2011 11:38 am

attyLLL


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is he married to the other mother?

2) the law does not consider that as coercion

3) i don't believe it's a crime not to declare you have children in our itr or sss


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7 Re: Abandonment on Sat Sep 10, 2011 1:21 pm

aeneid


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Hindi po siya married iyon ang nakalagay sa i.t.r nya at iyon ang sabi nya..
*Thanks po sa response at info. sabi kc nun kilala kong pulis pwede daw makulong up to 6yrs. sa kasong abandonment.totoo po ba yun?
*di nko umaasa na susuportahan pa nya baby ko dhil sinabi nya na di nya kayang suportahan baby ko khit my trabaho siya.
* base sa mga nabasa ko dito pwedeng 9262 economic abuse ikaso ko sa kanya,tama po ba? nabanggit nyo criminal case under, ano po ba nararapat sa kanya base sa nailahad ko sa inyo? ..gusto ko talaga siyang makulong.
**Salamat po talaga napaka-informative ng site ninyo paghahandaan ko po kasi itong maige once na financially stable na ako on my own. Aside of filing a case against him, your site is an eye opener for me to know my rights. Im also planning to pursue to take law as a 2nd course na dati ko ng dream sadly kailangan ko pa maexperience ito. More power on your site Atty.LLL

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8 Re: Abandonment on Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:22 pm

attyLLL


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if he does not admit that it is his child or he will not sign the birth certificate, then it will be a challenge how to prove that it is his child in the first place.


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