hello po...i have read several letters in this site about husbands cheating on their wives in which i have the same case..
my husband and i have been married for about 3 years now, actually we're about to celebrate our 3rd year this month sana if everything in our marriage is still going fine..
my husband works in canada and in the first years of our relationship i never doubted about his loyalty when we talked every single day over the phone and online...when i first found out that he has a secret affair i was so hurt knowing that despite of our everyday conversation he still managed to cheat on me...i also found out that he had so many other relationships/flings to different women..but i still gave him second chances..worst, i found out that he had a child with one of his EXs there...i confirmed it with the girl herself. i was so hurt and i even had sleepless nights and i couldn't concentrate in my work anymore..it was so painful to know that while i was pregnant, he also got another girl carry his other child. 2 months after i gave birth his then mistress also gave birth to his child. our children were born in the same year. That was so painful for me and to my child as well. My husband never admitted that to me. But because of my intention of keeping our marriage and to give our child a complete family, i gave him another chance only to find out that he had left that girl already and now he has a new girlfriend. i gathered so much information and evidences that they are now living together. when i first confronted my husband about that affair he has with this woman he strongly denied it and he told me that there's no truth to any of my accusations..but i got a copy of a phonebill to where it reflected their phone numbers. joint phonebill that is. a copy if their car insurance to where the girl added my husband as his boyfriend so he could drive and alternately use each other's car..i also have copies of their pictures together posted in instagram. when my husband couldn't deny anymore he started avoiding me. he would even reject my calls and no replies to my text messages. i even discovered that my husbands salary is held by his mistress since they also have joint bank account. She holds his phone so he wouldnt be able to answer even his parent's and sister's call..in short the girl blocks our ways of communications. she would even manipulate my husbands email & fb account. this is very insulting and really damages my emotions...i also found out from some people there that their relationship is being publicly displayed and they're acting like husband and wife..they even tell other people that we are already separated which is so untrue..maybe we are not in good terms but i believe things like that need to be talked about and agreed by both parties..i tried calling my husband to settle this and ask for what he really wants but he doesn't have the courage to do so..he is so coward to face the issue all he knows is to walk away from the problem he has built, to just keep silent and ignore me and our child..he hasn't sent financial support for our child yet. for the longest time i remained silent and did not take legal actions but now i want to file a case against them..please help me with this..i heard and read about RA 9262 but i need some other clarifications...what other cases can i file against them i know it's really hard because we are not in the same country..i want justice for myself and my child..i want my husband to be deported and his mistress to pay for this.
please help me...thank you!