im a nurse. an ofw for almost 4 yers now-married for almost12yrs,a mother of 3 wonderful boys,.ages-11-10 and 8 -my husband is sober from drug use-but im afraid how long he will be sober-first case related to drugs was dismissed.worry haunts me-one of my kid confides he saw him using it,even before my first year that i went to work,.and until at present-when he will be confronted,.he denies-i want to file a petition,.for separation simply because,.i lost my trust,love and respect for this person,.who i consider to be my better half,.who will supposed to take care of my family while iam away-but i feel threatens,..with his misbehaviors,.so with my children-he doesnt have a job-
what ground will i file for this case-psychological incapcity-?how long thus it take to finish the case?one more thing-
we are being petition by his family abroad,.if i file for legal separation would that affect our status -our family petition to U.S and affect also my children's petiton just incse i won the case for legal separation?
hope to hear from you soon-