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26 Re: Child Support on Tue Mar 27, 2012 9:35 pm

concernmomi


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Good pm po atty..Im a concern relative (sa sis in-laws ko)
Meron po siyang anak (17 yrs old that time) na nabuntis nung guy which is nagkaroon naman po sila ng relasyon kasi magksama sila sa work . That time may gf si guy na nasa abroad and may plano magpakasal pagdating. Before december 2011, dumating gf niya then ngpakasal sila..Without knowing na nabuntis niya ang niece in law ko..Hindi naman kasi pinaalam nung niece ko na buntis siya.Yung sis in law ko lumapit po siya sa Brgy place nung guy para humingi ng suporta at may kasulatan na magbibigay support, na acknowledge nmn ng lalaki na anak niya yun.Nagyon po nung during pregnancy nung niece in law ko, humihingi ng financial support s pagpapacheck up niya dahil may infection (uti) so nakailang balik po sa ospital..unti unti tumulong ung nany ng guy (total of 5000). The gang sa nanganak itong niece in law ko, nde na siya na bigyan supporta, gang sa lumabas... Then after 4 days (march 20 2012)yung baby po naconfine dahil sa infection until now (march 27 2012) more than 1 week na po wala tulong financial ung lalaki..Ngayon po dahil sa kakulangan po ng financial sa side ng in-laws ko/ din po yung aking hipag (taga alaga ko ng 2 kids ko) at yung aswa po niya ay carpenter (by project lang po. Pumunta sila po uli sa Brgy sa place ng lalaki para magdemand ng financial support, pero ang sabi daw po ng side ng lalaki, wala na daw po silang maitutulong na Financial sa kanila. (dahil nga po naka confine pa yung baby), Yun na lang daw po sustento sa bata kada buwan na 1k (one thousand pesos only)ang ibibigay n nila..tumangging maki pag areglo ang hipag ko at sabi daw po sa Brgy. wala daw po siyang karapatang tumanggi???sabi ng hipag ko magtatanung daw po muna sa nakakaalam (ako po kasi ang concern sa kanila, kaya humihingi po ako ng advice) wala po silang pera para mag demanda pa..anu po gagawin nila??

salamat po at GOD BLESS!

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27 Re: Child Support on Tue Mar 27, 2012 10:12 pm

concepab


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concernmomi wrote:Good pm po atty..Im a concern relative (sa sis in-laws ko)
Meron po siyang anak (17 yrs old that time) na nabuntis nung guy which is nagkaroon naman po sila ng relasyon kasi magksama sila sa work . That time may gf si guy na nasa abroad and may plano magpakasal pagdating. Before december 2011, dumating gf niya then ngpakasal sila..Without knowing na nabuntis niya ang niece in law ko..Hindi naman kasi pinaalam nung niece ko na buntis siya.Yung sis in law ko lumapit po siya sa Brgy place nung guy para humingi ng suporta at may kasulatan na magbibigay support, na acknowledge nmn ng lalaki na anak niya yun.Nagyon po nung during pregnancy nung niece in law ko, humihingi ng financial support s pagpapacheck up niya dahil may infection (uti) so nakailang balik po sa ospital..unti unti tumulong ung nany ng guy (total of 5000). The gang sa nanganak itong niece in law ko, nde na siya na bigyan supporta, gang sa lumabas... Then after 4 days (march 20 2012)yung baby po naconfine dahil sa infection until now (march 27 2012) more than 1 week na po wala tulong financial ung lalaki..Ngayon po dahil sa kakulangan po ng financial sa side ng in-laws ko/ din po yung aking hipag (taga alaga ko ng 2 kids ko) at yung aswa po niya ay carpenter (by project lang po. Pumunta sila po uli sa Brgy sa place ng lalaki para magdemand ng financial support, pero ang sabi daw po ng side ng lalaki, wala na daw po silang maitutulong na Financial sa kanila. (dahil nga po naka confine pa yung baby), Yun na lang daw po sustento sa bata kada buwan na 1k (one thousand pesos only)ang ibibigay n nila..tumangging maki pag areglo ang hipag ko at sabi daw po sa Brgy. wala daw po siyang karapatang tumanggi???sabi ng hipag ko magtatanung daw po muna sa nakakaalam (ako po kasi ang concern sa kanila, kaya humihingi po ako ng advice) wala po silang pera para mag demanda pa..anu po gagawin nila??

salamat po at GOD BLESS!

naka-pirma po ba sa birth cert nung bata yung tatay?

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28 Re: Child Support on Wed Mar 28, 2012 4:04 pm

bluesyhin


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hi po, ask ko lang po if ano habol ko naghiwalay na po kami ng daddy ng mga kids ko pero di ap po kami annuled.. ilan months na po siyang walang financial support na binibigay..ano po pwde ko gawin sa kanya?

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29 Re: Child Support on Wed Mar 28, 2012 7:20 pm

psyq


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Good day.

Tatay po ako ng 3 years old na anak kong babae. Hiwalay po kami ng nanay nya at hinde rin po kami kasal.

Nagsusustento po ako sa anak ko, 4,000 kada buwan. Kamakailan lang ay inaway ako ng nanay ng bata at nanghihingi ng dagdag. Nuong unang buwan po ay nagbigay ako ng 6,000 pero sinabi ko sa kanya na sa mga susunod na buwan ay 5,000 po ang ipapadala ko para sa bata. Ngayon po ay nagagalit na naman sya at sinasabing kulang daw po ang binibigay ko. 30,000 po ang basic salary ko, babawasan pa po ng tax at upa sa bahay at kuryente at expenses ko rin po. Sinabi ko rin sa kanya na pinagiipunan ko din ang pagaaral ng bata.

Tama po ba ang binibigay ko or kailangang dagdagan ko pa?

Salamat po

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30 Re: Child Support on Thu Mar 29, 2012 4:40 pm

concernmomi


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concepab wrote:
concernmomi wrote:Good pm po atty..Im a concern relative (sa sis in-laws ko)
Meron po siyang anak (17 yrs old that time) na nabuntis nung guy which is nagkaroon naman po sila ng relasyon kasi magksama sila sa work . That time may gf si guy na nasa abroad and may plano magpakasal pagdating. Before december 2011, dumating gf niya then ngpakasal sila..Without knowing na nabuntis niya ang niece in law ko..Hindi naman kasi pinaalam nung niece ko na buntis siya.Yung sis in law ko lumapit po siya sa Brgy place nung guy para humingi ng suporta at may kasulatan na magbibigay support, na acknowledge nmn ng lalaki na anak niya yun.Nagyon po nung during pregnancy nung niece in law ko, humihingi ng financial support s pagpapacheck up niya dahil may infection (uti) so nakailang balik po sa ospital..unti unti tumulong ung nany ng guy (total of 5000). The gang sa nanganak itong niece in law ko, nde na siya na bigyan supporta, gang sa lumabas... Then after 4 days (march 20 2012)yung baby po naconfine dahil sa infection until now (march 27 2012) more than 1 week na po wala tulong financial ung lalaki..Ngayon po dahil sa kakulangan po ng financial sa side ng in-laws ko/ din po yung aking hipag (taga alaga ko ng 2 kids ko) at yung aswa po niya ay carpenter (by project lang po. Pumunta sila po uli sa Brgy sa place ng lalaki para magdemand ng financial support, pero ang sabi daw po ng side ng lalaki, wala na daw po silang maitutulong na Financial sa kanila. (dahil nga po naka confine pa yung baby), Yun na lang daw po sustento sa bata kada buwan na 1k (one thousand pesos only)ang ibibigay n nila..tumangging maki pag areglo ang hipag ko at sabi daw po sa Brgy. wala daw po siyang karapatang tumanggi???sabi ng hipag ko magtatanung daw po muna sa nakakaalam (ako po kasi ang concern sa kanila, kaya humihingi po ako ng advice) wala po silang pera para mag demanda pa..anu po gagawin nila??

salamat po at GOD BLESS!

naka-pirma po ba sa birth cert nung bata yung tatay?

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what if kung hindi po nagpirma? at what if kung nagpirma po? (kasi wala pa po sila reply sa akin tinanung ko po sila if nagpirma sa birthcert ng bata)

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31 Re: Child Support on Fri Mar 30, 2012 12:50 am

attyLLL


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concern, if the father did not sign the birth certificate, there is no legal proof that he is the father. his paternity over the child has to be established first

blues, you can send a demand letter then a complaint for economic abuse

psyq, why not arrange to give in kind also so you can be sure it's spent on the kids. imo, 6k is not enough


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32 Re: Child Support on Fri Mar 30, 2012 11:54 am

psyq


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Thank you sir.

I'm actually planning to just buy what my daughter needs instead of giving her mother the money. We just have one child though. But she has another daughter from another guy.

While I do agree that 6k is not enough, I'm actually saving up the rest so that I can make sure that my daughter will be able to have the best education I can provide her.

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33 Re: Child Support on Fri Mar 30, 2012 4:59 pm

concernmomi


Arresto Menor
attyLLL wrote:concern, if the father did not sign the birth certificate, there is no legal proof that he is the father. his paternity over the child has to be established first

blues, you can send a demand letter then a complaint for economic abuse

psyq, why not arrange to give in kind also so you can be sure it's spent on the kids. imo, 6k is not enough

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Anung kailangan po nila gawin para makahingi ng financial support kahit sa bata lang? kasi married na sa ibang babai po yung lalaki na nagkaron ng relasyon dito sa nephew in-law ko.KAsi hindi po pinaalam nitong nephew ko na nabuntis siya..nung dumating ang gf nitong lalaki, last december nagpakasal sila.tapos kaya po sila lumapit s barangay sa lugar ng lalaki para makahigi ng suporta sa panganganak nitong nephew ko, na nagpirma pa po sila ng kasulatan na tutulong.during the check up po, kasi nagkaroon ng uti ung nephew ko, unit unti silang tumulong lalo n yung nanay nung lalaki ang lagi pong nakikipag usap sa hipag ko..May pde po bang gawin para makahingi ng supporta?kahit hindi po nakapirma sa birth certificate? at paanu po gagawin para magpirma sa birth certificate..?

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34 Re: Child Support on Fri Mar 30, 2012 5:53 pm

mikesags


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atty christian po ako na nagconvert sa balik islam at working in government.,my 1st wife di niya alam ano po yung laws sa islam pero dis year pa lang po nadesisyonan ang declaration of nullity of void marriage sa 1st wife ko..at meron kami anak sa 1st wife ko na lalaki 10 years old at kukunin niya sa kin para raw magsuporta ako ng 3taw per mant kasi kakasuhan daw niya ako ng bigamy,married po ako sa 2nd wife ko sa islam..f hindi niya ibibgay sa akin..makakasohan po ba niya ako ng bigamy na balik-islam po ako?

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35 Re: Child Support on Fri Mar 30, 2012 5:56 pm

mikesags


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at isa pa po atty wala po syang permanenteng trabaho..at sa kin po atty meron po kami 3 child sa ikalawa kong misis na muslim nagwork po siya sa private compny..

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36 Re: Child Support on Fri Mar 30, 2012 5:57 pm

mikesags


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at isa pa po atty wala po syang permanenteng trabaho..at sa kin po atty meron po kami 3 child sa ikalawa kong misis na muslim nagwork po siya sa private compny..

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37 Re: Child Support on Sat Mar 31, 2012 8:16 am

trexander


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pareho kami ng problem ni jhomir... sana masolve natin pre.. ^^

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38 Re: Child Support on Sun Apr 01, 2012 10:24 pm

attyLLL


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psyq, make sure you retain proof of your remittances. you can also make a trust fund in your daughter's name.

concern, if the father will refuse to acknowledge, you'll have to file a case for acknowledgment and support.

mikesags, can you show you converted to islam before marrying your second wife?


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39 Re: Child Support on Sun Apr 01, 2012 11:00 pm

mikesags


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yes ..alam niya kasi father niya ay balik islam at hindi magpirma sa kasal namin if hindi ako converted sa islam..ang 2nd wife ko po ay balik islam rin po,alam din ng 2nd wife ko na may asawa na ako pero hiwalay lang po kami..at kaya po atty ano po ang dapat kong gagawin...by this august kukunin na niya ang bata sa akin..ano po ang una kong gagawin hakbang nito?

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40 Re: Child Support on Mon Apr 02, 2012 6:05 pm

concernmomi


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is it true po ba na pde kaming humngi tulong po sa POA (public attorneys) ng walang bayad?KAsi po wala po kaming pera para maka hire pa ng private atty. sa kokonting halga lang naman na makukuha nila....baka kulang pa kasi if nag hire sila ng atty po?please advise anu po steps/gagawin nila para makahingi ng supporta para lang po sa bata..

maraming maraming salamat po..napakalaking tulong po nitong ginawa niyo para matulungan para maunawaan ang batas sa ating bansa..natuto rin po ako diot sa mg aaction na dapt po gawin at iba ibang kaso po regarding sa family..Smile Very Happy

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41 Re: Child Support on Mon Apr 02, 2012 11:52 pm

psyq


Arresto Menor
Thank you again sir.

Most of my receipts were thrown off already but I kept my recent ones. Just recently, she told me that my daughter was hospitalized and that the money I sent was already spent on medicines, which is weird because my daughter is covered by my health insurance. Just this morning, I called my HMO and asked about my dependent's card usage and I was told that it wasn't used, not even once. My suspicions about it was true after all, and that she is using my daughter to get money.

Thank you so much for your help.

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42 Re: Child Support on Tue Apr 03, 2012 2:51 pm

attyLLL


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mike, you mention an annulment case. the custody of the child should be determined there.

concern, you can apply and see if you qualify


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43 Re: Child Support on Tue Apr 03, 2012 8:58 pm

mikesags


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yes our annulment had already proceesed to nso office..the entity of judgement that ill continue support to my child dahil nung proseso pa ang anulment namin ay andun pa sa kanya ang bata until at age 8 y.o..ngayon ay kukunin niya ulit meron kami agrement sa bata lamang..palagi niya ako iblackmail sa bigamy kasi hindi pa nareciv reply sa nso office after 3 months pa daw ang reply..

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44 Re: Child Support on Wed Apr 04, 2012 10:16 pm

attyLLL


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you cannot prevent her from filing a bigamy case, but you can allege your religion as a defense.

if you have an agreement regarding custody which was approved by the court, then file a motion for execution.


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45 Re: Child Support on Thu Apr 05, 2012 10:06 pm

mikesags


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hindi po sa korte yung agrement namin sa bata atty,,kundi sa atty po cebu in private firm..sa agrement po kasi nakakalagay na no demands or claims when she signed those documents..kung ibibgay ko ulit ang bata sa kanya gagawa ba kami ulit ng custody of the child?ano po ba ang ilalagay ko sa testamento para hindi na niya ako guguluhin pa..

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46 Re: Child Support on Sat Apr 07, 2012 1:45 am

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mikes, custody should have been discussed in your annulment case. you can stick to the old agreement or come up with a new one.


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47 Re: Child Support on Sat Apr 07, 2012 4:37 pm

mikesags


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tnx so much atty..for her peace in mind na hindi na daw siya manggugulo sa akin ibibigay ko na lang daw anak namin sa kanya..iba kasi sa isip nito no words of honor kasi kaya ko kinukuha sa kanya noon ang anak namin..at gagawa na lamang kami ng bagong agreemnt para sa bata,,ano po ang dapat sa content ko ilalagay para hindi na siya makakapanggugulo sa akin..?

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48 Re: Child Support on Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:35 pm

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i recommend you get a lawyer to draft your agreement


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49 Re: Child Support on Sun Apr 15, 2012 11:38 am

mikesags


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tnx atty...but for now nagbakasyon anak ko sa mother ko po,lola po niya,at nalaman na kukunin niya na kukunin ng ina yung bata ko at nagbigay siya ng opinyon na kung pwede sa kanya na lang muna yung bata,wala pa kasi permanent work ang dati ko na asawa,pwede po ba yang sa lola muna niya ?pwede ba gawan yan ng agrement? kung sa akin po okey po sa akin kasi makikita ko naman minsan if makakabakasyon po ako saming lugar,

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50 Re: Child Support on Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:45 am

trexander


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atty pwede ba ako sampahan ng kaso ng ex asawa ko sa ibang lugar?

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