I had a relationship with a military officer and we have a child. We were not married and we are not in good terms but we still civil to each other. We still communicate if there's something to discuss about.
Our child is now 3 years old and he has been sending monthly support continuously for the past 3 years. He is paying for the baby sitter's salary which is 3K. We had arguments before because i was urging him to sign a Child Support Agreement. This is to formalize everything and also for my child's security that her father will continuously send financial support. althought he gives meagerly and not enough to at least cover half of the expenses of the child. He refused to sign the contract and we had serious fights that led me to filing a child support case with PAO, but because I failed to present an evidence which is his pay slip that i have no access to and he refused to give me a copy, the case didn't pursue and still with RTC. Now, he's neglecting his financial obligation and now 2 months behind of his financial support. I am thinking of filing a complaint in DND or at the Villamor Airbase office and request to just deduct his financial obligation from his salary so we don't need to communicate at all. He does not want to talk to me and refusing my calls. I am desperate. Pls help!